POF : I use pof for a good laugh
Site is full of 3s thinking they are 10s and the 10s usually have 3 or more kids lol when you have 3 kids and your under 25 don’t say your not looking for a one night stand, you are a hoe… Most girls can’t even hold a convo, no wonder no one wants them lol
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I mean, from a female perspective, the guy pool arent all prizes either. I mean I don’t think I’m a 10, but I am childfree with most of my life together, like work or car. Some people really have specific tastes and it’s hard to relate to them. Like this one guy I met, really nice, had it together, but drove the point home he wanted a gamer girl & since i didnt check that box, we discontinued conversation.
I’ve seen r/whereareallthegoodmen.
The moms of 2+ saying they love to travel & camp, etc. My friends who have kids have no time for that. The single dad I dated off here barely had time to date.
I used POF for 20 months before I found my perfect match there. I had a great time, met lots of men and it was a fabulous experience with a fantastic end result!
It’s so funny we all have the same issues, no matter our gender or what we are looking for. We all want people to be clear and honest, yet when they are…
Guys tell me I need to be more flexible… because I don’t want to date a guy with three kids under the age of 10! This guy had three kids that LIVED with him, a baby, toddler and school aged. (Are you kidding?? Play with your kids stop looking for ass… is what I said to myself in my head).
Obviously, he can look for girls all he wants, I fully support him, there’s no need to parent shame, but my profile has the info, you still chose to message me, knowing full well you could be rejected, and when I thank you for your nice message, politely decline and offer to chat, and refer you to my profile, you tell me I have a problem. Geesh.
Oh, this one kills me… I make it very clear in my profile I’m looking for some one local…
« But… but… but I’m just 20 minutes off the highway… »
Yeah, after a 30 minute drive dude- an hour away is not living near me!!!!
My profile is very clear regarding specifics of what I am looking for, yet I still get verbally abused if I try to act like an adult, acknowledge and thank them for their message and politely say I’m not interested, or we are not a match.
I try to learn how to navigate the site better each time, sometimes I just ignore, sometimes I respond to stop the messages. Nice conversations and coffee dates are worth the jerks that pop up — Good luck everybody
Sometimes you just have to laugh, but remember everyone deserves at least the chance to find their someone special, both the 3’s and the 10’s
But these same females think they deserve everything , like give me a break bitch hahahahh
I deleted POF because of the absolute insanity of the users.
« I’m 26, have 3 kids, WILL NOT GET A BABY SITTER, smoke drink and do drugs so deal with it. You must own a house and your own car with enough seats for my children. I DO NOT WORK and I never will so you must support me in every way. I refuse to clean or do any chores because I am a QUEEN. Only looking for a real man who owns 5 businesses and will take me to abother country every 3 months. My ex will be coming to see the kids every 3 days and he just got out of jail for stabbing my last boyfriend. Oh and you need a 2ft penis! »
Then the picture is a 2/10 girl who will die of heart disease in the next 10 years.
I thought my standards were high but holy fuck these people are detached from reality.
I just want someone to vibe and chill with so I don’t get how you can have so many expectations, especially when you’re already starting out with so many negatives.
LOL yes true. Their standards are so unreasonable and ridiculous. I just try to have fun and not take it too seriously.
But it truly is remarkable that they think they deserve a hardworking, handsome, loyal man, with no kids.
I met my gf on FetLife, was a way better site. If you don’t know what it is you should check it out.
Must be one of those guys who’s « not a real enough man » for one of the fat, nasty, demanding, four bastard kid having, deadbeat baby daddy, unemployed, trailer trash, demanding single moms on POF.
Time for you to « man up » and take care of one of these worthless, STD infested, cum dumpster pig’s bastard offspring or you’re not a « real man. »
I only go on there to talk shit to the worthless skanks on POF. Calling them women or humans is an honor those garbage rat faced whores don’t deserve. Trash, more like it.