POF : I’m a failure?
Okay so I just wanted to follow up on my experience from my last post. as I had said, I had gotten two numbers from two different girls. The first one was flaky from the start. She told me that she wasn’t meeting anyone until covid was over, which is weird why are you active on Plenty of Fish if you’re unwilling to meet people. The funny part was that she was still actively going outside with friends and family. So I dropped her.
The second girl was promising we hit it off almost from the start. We were having full-blown conversations and we even started playing games together on the PC and on the switch. the only downside was this girl didn’t want to meet until she was done with her exams which took about a month. Now this girl had some weird insomnia where she got about 4 hours of sleep which she says she’s had for a long time. We all have problems and I’m willing to look past that. I won’t bore you with the details but after a month and a half I was getting frustrated at the fact that we still haven’t been able to Hangout. No I was willing to do everything to make her comfortable and in doing so I believe in my heart of hearts that I was being too kind to this girl. after that month and a half she told me that I shouldn’t be trying to meet up right away. I don’t consider a month and a half right away. The conversations had gotten really stale afterwards and she just started giving generic responses to me. Since I would always be the one to initiate the conversation between us I decided to stop. If she was actually interested, she would be the one to initiate this time. It’s been 7 days. I dropped her.
I feel that these weren’t failures, they were actually a good opportunity to learn that you have value even if other people dont see it in you. Keep moving forward. You can’t even physically imagine how many men and women are out there for you to find. Never settle, never simp, know your value.
By. iDemacC
Glad you found out after only a few months! I imagine it could be much worse…spending years, perhaps? I find what they attempted despicable. On a ‘dating’ site to meet new people and refuse to meet? Sounds very much like the start of a scam (invest in my onlyfans?) or simply catfishing. In this day and age, with everything bad going on in the world, I definitely appreciate safety precautions and everything associated along those lines but why waste people’s time if you’re not going to at least, oh I don’t know, have a cup of tea at a restaurant or take a walk together in public such as window-shop at a mall? What is/was the point of even joining a dating site then? Especially after investing so much time into getting to know someone. Then they can’t be honest enough, on something as sterile as a internet dating site, to even say, « Sorry, no. I’m not interested. »? This is precisely why I have stopped trying to meet people on these sites. I believe my time is valuable enough not to waste it on the silly, fickle and often moronic whims of those who don’t know what they want and let’s not forget, married people who aren’t satisfied with what they have. And sadly, I’m certain this will be construed as offensive by those very same people. I don’t want to congratulate someone on their pain, but I feel you dodged a bullet. So, congratulations and the best of luck with finding someone decent and honest for once!
Your not the whole site is useless half the time the girls don’t even try yet for some reason they give one worded responses. Just don’t engage if you don’t want to try, I don’t give a fuck I’ll move on but I hate one worded fuckin answers
Ok so you did something wrong with both girls and that was failing to make them feel « alive ». This is a step between going out and getting to know each other. Nowadays hoes are very insecure because that’s what’s trending, so you would have to make them feel « alive » and by alive i mean you need to tell them something shocking that they want to hear. For example, let’s say a girl is looking for a hit n run. You wouldn’t just dm her and ask to meet up straight away because hoes hate feeling like hoes, so what you need to do is get to know her a bit (which you did wonderful with he full blown conversations) but then once she starts getting horny the 2nd step comes in which is sexting, start being descriptive of how you would pin her against the wall and bang her til sunrise. Do this couple of times and the next week or so she will feel more attached to you. Now her chances of going out with you will be increased but they can be increased even more by starting to sk her for tips in life (which btw they are horrible at it) but keep asking her and pretend she helped you and send her memes and then I believe you will be ready to meet her. But you need to do all those steps in order to get there, its not full on guarantee but thats just how these women work in America
>Never settle, never simp, know your value.
Nah I’m good, I’m all the other guys.
>She told me that she wasn’t meeting anyone until covid was over, which is weird why are you active on Plenty of Fish if you’re unwilling to meet people. The funny part was that she was still actively going outside with friends and family. So I dropped her.
Your average hypocrite? Naw, can’t be so.