POF : I’m attracting brunettes when I want blondes….. what is going on?!?!?
If you look at my favorites and who favorites me as well as who messages me it’s probably 9/10 times a brunette girl. I really want to date a blonde girl as shallow as it sounds but I can’t figure out how I can get messaged everyday by brunette girls and never by a blonde girl who is in decent shape. Is there a certain appearance or something the blonde girls go after in guys? I have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes but I can’t attract the opposite sex with the same hair and eye color…. sorry for the shallow rant I just can’t figure this out.
By. Giga7777
Maybe try judging someone on how well you get along instead of their hair color? Or just put « blondes only » in your profile and let the problem work itself out.
You are being to shallow..for all you know your future wife could have black hair but you won’t know and never meet because you are too damned picky with hair color.
State in your profile that you are seeking the female version of you.
Dedicate a preference section in your About Me. Sounds douche-y up front, but it won’t waste your time or theirs.
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