POF : In the online dating world, what is your definition of “games” and “drama”?
So many profiles have phrases like “I’m tired of games” and “I don’t want drama” and on and on ad nauseum. What EXACTLY are these games? Are they different for men and women? And what sort of drama are men and women trying to avoid?
By. Empyrean_Luminary
Games and drama to me are guys who give the run around about meeting up in public. Guys who when you ask simple questions avoid most of the answers.
Anyone who says they want to meet, but is always busy when you try to set something up. Also, they say they want to meet and always avoids the subject when you try to discuss time and place.
Also, always seems to be an existential crisis that one of their friends is dealing with, and they have to help them out with it. Usually involves one of their friend’s exes, that they just can’t seem to cut ties with.
I may have more, but these are the ones off the top of my head.
Unfortunately I’ve come across many women stating those slogans among many other slogans often with caps lock, only to find they are just talking a lot of shit on their profiles. Very dodgy women (most). Uphill battle.