POF : I’ve noticed they’re a lot of single mothers that use this app
How do I exactly go about dating a woman with kids so that I may have a happy life maybe. What are the Dos and Donts
By. DeathPleaseKnock
How do I exactly go about dating a woman with kids so that I may have a happy life maybe. What are the Dos and Donts
By. DeathPleaseKnock
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First of all, good on you for being open to dating a parent! Kids aren’t for me, now and forever. I’d rather date someone only if there’s potential for more if the spark is there. Kids are an automatic dealbreaker among other things. So to the question at hand.
Parents are not all the same, and how much they let people into their lives depends on the type of relationship they’re looking for. **Just ask them** after you’ve determined you want to keep talking. They will tell you how involved they want their kids in your relationship, at the beginning at least. **And you have a say too.** Every parent is different and should have given the kid factor serious thought before starting to date. If they haven’t, that’s a sign in itself too.
But be wary of those that want to introduce you to their kids right away. That’s a sign of unhealthy boundaries or wanting to move too fast, which is bad news -kids or no kids. My two cents, a parent should explore a relationship as an individual first and vet this other person before exposing them to their children.
at least half are single mothers, and the other half are bots.
What makes you think you can’t have a happy life with a woman who has a child? Understand she may not have the flexibility women without children have and be open to activities and plans that would involve her child/children too. Don’t try to discipline them either. That’s not your job. If you’re not cool with any of that, then a woman with a child or children is probably not right for you.
We’re not all looking for a FWB. Precisely the opposite here. Unfortunately, most of the men on there want everything to revolve around them so they have no interest in a woman who has another human she’s responsible for. The guys treat single mothers like all they’re good for is a hookup.
Single mothers are pretty much looking for casual dates and ongoing fwbs. As most of their profiles state « My kids will always come first » (of course! No one suggests otherwise), so take it as read.