POF : Just Ask
Anyone else hate this type of profile?
I mean, does anyone create a resume with only these words?
Does Just Ask really cause anyone to think, « This is an amazing, original post. This person is obviously deep spiritually, and most likely well traveled intellectually. »
What is the normal response to « Just Ask? »
By. mozart357
Just Ask is an automatic no from me. It’s basically saying « Judge me on my looks alone, I’ll do the same to you, and we’ll go from there. »
Same with « If I put everything here what will we have to talk about? » Uh, well SOMETHING as opposed to the NOTHING I currently have to work with.
Pass them up, chances are you’re going to get one word replies from them, unless they’re totally attracted to you.
Left, with a quickness! We don’t know, what we don’t know! It’s such a stupid thing to do. Lazy. Boring. Annoying. Even the hottest get the left.
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Most people message others on dating sites on the basis of appearance first. So people figure why go through all of the effort?
Or they’re new and don’t know if they’ll be on the site for any longer than a few days (they just want to check out the other users).
Fuck people that do that…i always used to put if you put message me for more info in your profile it’s a sure fire way I’ll never message you
i always thought it was lame cop out to say if i write it all here what would we have to talk about lol. i mean you dont have to write everything about yourself but atleast put something on it lol.
In my opinion, there is no response as they shouldn’t be given the option to be taken seriously. If you want good feedback from a dating site, you have to put in the work.
REALLY hot women don’t even have to put “Just ask” in their profile, I’ve seen REALLY hot women just put “blah blah blah” in there. Some even just put random letters: “fhtfjghkhf”.
They know the score.
Funny I had “Just ask” in my profile at one point. I’m not a person who’s great at carrying on about my likes, dislikes, interests, and hobbies in an about me section. About a few days into having my profile I met a guy who, at the time, said he would pass up anyone who put “just ask” in their profile because he couldn’t take them seriously and didn’t think they could hold a conversation. We text text all night and well into the next morning about 7 pm – 3am. A day later I was asked if I wanted to meet up for a casual date. 11 months later I’ve moved in, meet the parents, got him a cute dog, and couldn’t be happier. I think people now a days find any excuse to rule someone out. I mean you take a few minutes maybe a few days a realize they’re the one, they’re great for hookups, or just a waste of time.