POF : Ladies on POF can be confusing….
I have seen countless POF profiles where ladies will be dressed proactively (wearing hardly anything in their pictures), happily showing their tongue piercing, will have « wants to date but nothing serious », but when you make it to « About Me » they say « Not here looking for sex ». I mean, neither am I, at least not in the interim, but I could see how many would be confused by that. I’m not saying that they have should be harassed or anything, and of course I am all for women’s autonomy over their body, but you likely won’t find what you are looking for presenting yourself that way online. This is not me approaching you in a grocery store after leaving yoga. This is you literally curating your pictures and profile to present a certain image of yourself. Oh well…. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.