POF : …like to receive longer messages…
Do you even bother when this message comes up?
By. Citko76
Do you even bother when this message comes up?
By. Citko76
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I get this message occasionally, and I usually just pass the person by.
My profile is over 1000 words and explains what I’m looking for, and want, in detail. This was done purposely so that I wouldn’t have to write a book for every person I contact.
It’s very easy for me to lose patience with people on POF. They often have long lists of wants, most of which I can’t provide. I’m not looking for a princess.
I have it set so that minimum message length is 50 characters because I was sick of getting « hey sexy » or « hey babe »
That’s a very small character limit. All you’ have to say to cover it is « hi, I read your profile and we have some things in common. Would you like to chat? » That’s 81 characters and very little effort.
I had mine set so that I got 50 or more characters in a message. Yeah I did because I was tried of getting just Hi or hey there. I wanted to make sure guys actually read my profile
I still do, I just fill in the blanks with emojis, …. or other stuff
At that point, I erase what I genuinely wrote and send them a generic « Hey, how are you? » copy and pasted 15 times.