POF : Men on POF feel like crap because they get no messages and spend all day getting shot down. Ladies are getting tons of messages and feeling like divas.
It’s a vicious cycle
A man who’s feeling low and rejected is going to dump his frustration onto women
Women will dump it onto other guys who have no idea what they did to deserve it
Let’s face it.
No one is innocent here
There’s plenty of blame to go around
But why complain without offering a suggestion for how lopsided things are:
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– Ladies, you should have a ceiling on incoming messages. If you reach 60 unique messages, your inbox gets locked.
In order to fix how lopsided things are
– Ladies you have to send 4 first contact messages to remove the ceiling from your inbox.
The idea is that men will receive more messages and the dating climate will become less lopsided.
It’s not an air-tight idea but I haven’t heard many suggestions on how to fix these issues. So instead of everyone always complaining I figured I’d try to offer something.
I wish the best to everyone in their dating ventures.
By. KorvisKhan
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You are generalizing that this is how it is for all men/women in POF. I agree that women probably receive more messages than men but why should we be penalized because 59 of those 60 messages are from men who are too far away/didn’t read the profile and have nothing in common with us/ bots/ rude/ out of the age group we are interested in/ not even remotely looking for the same things we are….and I could go on. Quantity does not mean quality and to be fair, I send as many first messages as I get with very little responses from anyone I am actually interested in
Yeah true… I brought this problem up with female friends of mine. They are very careful in replying some men back because most have bad experiences with creeps. Sometimes they will sit on messages or the app itself because they need a break from that. I’m sure there’s other reasons why women don’t reply. I’m sure dating is tough all around, especially if your looking for a meaningful relationship, just gatta keep trying.
I must be lucky. I have send out approx. 25 messages to ladies on pof. I have received 4 reply’s. two flat out no’s , one date , one still messaging . I only sent messages to very close to my age and **no** attractive ladies’. The one flat out no was a snarky one . She was a 3 looking for a 9 like most ladies on the dating sites
I have sent so many « hello there » messages out there and haven’t gotten one single GENERAL KENOBI back. C’mon ladies!