POF : Men on POF feel like crap because they get no messages and spend all day getting shot down. Ladies are getting tons of messages and feeling like divas.
It’s a vicious cycle
A man who’s feeling low and rejected is going to dump his frustration onto women
Women will dump it onto other guys who have no idea what they did to deserve it
Let’s face it.
No one is innocent here
There’s plenty of blame to go around
But why complain without offering a suggestion for how lopsided things are:
– Ladies, you should have a ceiling on incoming messages. If you reach 60 unique messages, your inbox gets locked.
In order to fix how lopsided things are
– Ladies you have to send 4 first contact messages to remove the ceiling from your inbox.
The idea is that men will receive more messages and the dating climate will become less lopsided.
It’s not an air-tight idea but I haven’t heard many suggestions on how to fix these issues. So instead of everyone always complaining I figured I’d try to offer something.
I wish the best to everyone in their dating ventures.