POF : Message Missing from Sent Items?
Hey all,
I am curious how exactly the messaging works on Plenty of Fish. I sent a message to someone and it was in my sent messages section of my inbox. Fine. I go back an hour later and see that the message is gone from my sent box. I have no incoming messages from this person, nor do I have the outgoing message.
I assumed I was blocked, but when I went back to my search, this person was still listed in the search. I clicked « Send Message » and it took me back to my message that I previously sent them. So the message DOES exist!
My question is: what happened here? Did they delete my message without responding? Am I blocked even though I can still see their profile? Or did POF reject my message for some reason?
Thanks in advance!
By. throwaway898778
Blocking on POF isnt like on Facebook. They’ll still turn up on searches of they block you (or if you block them). Your sent message WILL disappear if they block you, but sometimes its a gliche. Best way to find out for sure, is go to their profile, go to send a message, bring up that « lost » conversation, and send a new message.
For some reason, POF notifies you sometimes before you message, and sometimes AFTER you’ve typed a message and tried to send it. If you’ve been blocked, once you try to send it, it’ll say you’ve been blocked.
So do that. Send a new message. Just a random hi, or whatever. It’ll tell you. If not… then you havent been blocked.