POF : Modern women looking to be swept off their feet
As it is commonly known, there is quite a large pool of women on dating sites with unrealistically high expectations due to the sheer amount of demand. So it boosts already inflated egos (mostly online) looking for the best they can get, usually complying to (superficial modern standards).
Unfortunately, it seems, they get fooled by men with personality disorders (particularly NPD) because initially they show a lot of traits women today are looking for. Usually sweeping them off their feet with charm, excitement and adventure. Only to find more often than not, they have become victims of abuse and consequently discarded and thrown away like an unwanted toy.
I’ve read a few of articles from women who have been victims of abuse and unfortunately some don’t seem to learn. They talk about afterwardly quickly jumping into a relationship with a “polite stable man” but get bored with that. This is a huge cost to the economy with domestic abuse funding, awareness and employment absence ever increasing to historic levels.
I know there are really switched on sensible women out there, but seem few in today’s society. The demand for ones own superficial desires and wants is having colossal effects on the economy and already overstretched services are bursting at the seams.
By. stumpy1982
hey pal, next time you see your buddy being a dick to a woman, slap him. cycle of abuse has to stop somewhere.
I’m not sure what your point is…
Your point being, alphas get all the babes? Nice guys finish last? I’m doomed to die single?
> As it is commonly known, there is quite a large pool of women on dating sites with unrealistically high expectations due to the sheer amount of demand.
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There are a lot of issues here. POF is a business. They’re in this to make money. They’re going to make it more and more difficult for people to meet. They know that like a porn site that people will keep on coming back.
A lot of this depends on age, and also on location, and many other factors. A few other factors are that it’s become a hookup culture for males. Somewhat for a few of the women, but it seems that most women still want something serious. I can only speak from my point of view. I’m more than likely a few years older, and cynical for my age, but maybe not as much as someone that’s younger than I am.
Society is changing as it always does. For a long time the relationship was about the female if she was under thirty, and about the male once she’s over that age. I’m not sure of how much that tradition still holds up anymore in our culture. I have heard and read about males no longer being interested in women once they hit 35. Usually with guys that earn a lot and are more dbagish.
I’m not sure of how much frat boy culture still sets the tone in the dating realm at this time. I’m sure that we can all admit that women have to put up with at least a little bit more bullshit than the average guy does. It’s seemed to cause women to be more guarded. But they also still seem to overall still want a more traditional dating system. Like going out on real dates, actually starting with and building a friendship, and then being adored, admired, and wanted.
I know for me that I’m personally just looking to keep things as casual as they can be. I just want to have some fun outside of, and inside of a bedroom. I can still be romantic. But only after some time. It’s a two way street, but there are many roadblocks and construction happening on that road.
It’s just my own perspective. I’m more than happy to learn. And would like to hear any feed back, or just your opinions
Ahhhh so its womens fault that you’re unattractive to women, but its also womens fault for being abused by men they find attractive?
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So in summary, you’re less attracive to women than a man that beats women… I’m not sure this tactic will get you any dates tbh.
Dude…girl here. Give us a little credit? Your stereotyping is showing.
My dude…. I know it is frustrating… more than you know.. but it i what it is and you gotta work with what you got! .. and also not go on negative rants like this.. Good luck man.
Got any sources for all that?
Rather bizarre, considering pointless posts are usually just ignored. The point I was trying to make is in today’s world, it’s all about winning, in everything, at all costs. It’s all about getting on top and kicking away the ladder to make sure there’s no competition. Everyone knows a winner or a narcissist is initially preferable. As you would expect, this effect reinforces anxiety in depressed brooding losers slumped sullenly. Victory and defeat are self-reinforcing. Forget noble principles, it’s about winning.
Listen to some Tom Leykis