POF : Naked pics, the new normal?
I went on a first date with a guy a few days ago, it went pretty well.
Then that night after the date he sent me a half naked pic of himself. He’s been sending them at least once a day, talking sexually and asking if I want a pic of his dick. I’ve asked him to stop a few times but it hasn’t worked I guess I have to grow a back bone and tell him straight up and just block him but is this seriously the new normal?
I feel like I’m going crazy, I don’t want to see some guys dick or talk about sex within the first few dates. I’ve had a few relationships that have just turned into fwb because of talking about that too early. I just want a normal dude who’s into having a conversation and getting to know someone before jumping into that. Is it ever going to happen on pof? Lol
By. bacon4life
I don’t see it as normal.
Straight male here. Never once sent a dick pic, even to girlfriends, it would feel too sleezy. Don’t personally know any guy that I’d think would. Encountered plenty of arrogant pricks in public that would, and the rest of us men hate and laugh at those guys. I imagine online dating is more susceptible to this behavior, because its more anonymous and they are less likely to have to see the woman again if it fails.
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I’m hoping this isn’t the new normal but unfortunately it’s a trend right now for a guy to send an unwanted dick pick or ask for nudes or pic trades. I recently started dating a guy from POF and ended after two months in. He started sending me dick pics, that I didn’t ask for and we weren’t even talking/texting about anything sexual. It was something like…
Me: how’s it going tonight?
Him: I’m in (another state) drinking…
Him:dick pic
Him: dick pic
Him: did I cross a line?
What in the world? Lol I’m so hoping this isn’t the new norm. 🙁
It’s nothing new.
I’ve had guys do that I do let them know I’m not interested, and if they can’t behave they will get blocked. I do normally lost interest once that even happens, so I do get to know someone else, and drop them fast.