POF : NSFW-just call me miss “send them back to her”
I can’t win. I can not.
This guy was trying to date me a few months ago & I ended up blocking him, no idea why. He messaged me on my new profile & we talked about neither of us knowing why I blocked him. Well he began messaging me non stop, being sweet, flirty, etc. We talked on the phone & decided to see each other casually & exclusively. Met up, I was really shy, he was eager, we spent a couple of hours together having sex-I thought “great” sex, since he kept starting it up and going again but I might be wrong because the next day he was different.
Brought it up, because I’d rather be honest and part ways-I even told him as much. But, no, he said everything was great, he’d been distant due to running around for the holidays, missing his kids, etc.
I knew it was bullshit. It felt bullshitty. I said ok no problem, heard nothing else.
Today he messaged me that he’s sorry. He realizes now that he wants one of his kids’ moms back. That his head was all over the place and the last thing he needed was for me to make him feel worse. That he didn’t think he used me, but he’s a broken man trying to get his family back together.
This is the same baby’s mom he was bragging about leaving.
The entire conversation was about how I needed to bare with him while he sorts himself out. How he played himself thinking he was over her. How he’ll do whatever it takes to win her back.
JFC. Just a few days ago his tongue was 3 inches up my ass. But ok.
I give up. I’m just doing my part to send men back to the women who they once ran from. That’s my fucking super power. Fml.
By. throwaway9076broken
Have an upvote from someone else who is tired of being the ‘moment of clarity’ for people who think they’re over their exes but aren’t.
Post-nut clarity is real with this one. He’s all over the place. Obviously there are no shut doors if he keeps thinking there’s a chance again with his ex. You giving him another shot just made him think it’s ok, even if his tongue was deep in you. You had reservations and trust your gut. Stop messaging him until he completely moved on & even then, hold off on the ass eating until he proves its over and focuses on you. If a guy acted shady after a hook up, i would hold off on anymore until i could trust him.
so you had sex, next day guy acted weird…you mean, bam bam, thank you ma’am, onto the next ma’am.
Sounds like he forgot the grape jelly with that tossed salad
Its called using girls for sex
So did you meet on POF?