POF : POF Guy
I was messaged by this guy on POF. We have an unbelievable amount of things in common. He asked me out for coffee or if I had any better ideas?
I asked if he wanted to come to this show with me Thurs. night since I was going anyway, and he mentioned liking bluegrass/americana music. He said he would get back to me about Thursday.
I said if Thurs. wouldn’t work I was down for coffee any evening. He said sounds good, that he saw a good blues band there last year, and that he would get back to me about which day will work this week.
Well…it’s now Thurs. and he hasn’t been online since last Sun. WTF. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, but we had a thing and he genuinely seemed like he wanted to meet me. How incredibly disrespectful and immature. I thought I pinpointed him as someone who wouldn’t be like this. I’m upset and angry, and part of me wants to blast him in a tactful manner. Should I wait? I know I should just stop obsessing over it but wtf…he’s the one that initiated all this in the first place. Fuck him.
What would you say to a guy like this?