POF : STOP Listing Your Body Type As “A Few Extra Pounds” or “Curvy” When You Are Morbidly Obese
This is perhaps one of the most irritating things about online dating, and it’s not only on POF that it happens.
Listen folks, if lying to yourself about your body type makes you feel better when you look in the mirror, that’s your prerogative. That being said, misleading aka LYING to a potential mate/partner about your appearance is NEVER acceptable.
If you have any intention of meeting that person, in that moment everything you’ve been working toward will be dashed to pieces because if you’ll lie about your body type, what else will you lie about? It shows poor character.
While we’re on the topic, if every profile photo you’ve uploaded has been touched up or filters applied with an app like Snapchat, you are being deceptive. Stop saying you want ‘a real man’ or ‘a real woman’ when you aren’t being real with everyone else.
Have a little integrity.