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POF : This site is shit, I fucking give up!

POF : This site is shit, I fucking give up!


I’m an introverted guy who’s never had a girlfriend before, so I finally decided to try out online dating as a last-ditch effort. Since a few people I know met their partners on this site, I decided that would be the one I’d join.

And as I’ve expected, the girls are just as shallow, fickle, and cruel as they were in high school.

What pisses me off the most is how common ghosting is, even when they seem interested. I’d be having a great, interesting conversation with lots of laughs and flirting on both sides and *BAM!* I get blocked out of fucking nowhere. Seriously, don’t be a fucking cunt and at least tell me what I did wrong.

And no, my standards aren’t too high – I usually go for nerdy, kinda chubby girls because they tend to have the same interests as I do. Doesn’t matter how much we have in common though, they don’t give a shit.

Seriously, online dating is a DEATH SENTENCE for (average-) men. It’s over, I’ve accepted that I’ll die having never been on a single date. Whenever I try to shed the bitterness of my past rejections and garner some hope, this site rips it all away.


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  1. Dude, stop looking. Enjoy your life and hobbies. It says more about them than you if they ghost and really would you want to spend any more energy on someone who could show so little respect?

  2. I have communicated with over 300 women, talked to 60 on the phone and went out with 20 in the last five years. Look on how the number keeps going down from communicating, talking and then dating. The last 12 girls flaked on me. 12 in a row and I was talking to some of them for months! Talk about just wanting attention. My advice is get out there. Join a group, a class, a meet up, speed dating, work different jobs. I’ve tried Okcupid, Tinder, Match and Pof. Most of these sites are not for serious relationships even if they claim they are.

    The only one I never tried was Eharmony. I heard this one is expensive but that might be a good thing because women who are willing to pay must be serious. Again, I’m sure they still have high standards.

    Please be positive and try other options. If you feel it is too much, stop going on it. Remove yourself from the situation. All in all, online dating isn’t that great. It is mostly games, hooking up and a lot of nonsense. It’s too bad because some people actually want to meet a significant other on there.

    Don’t give up.

  3. Since you’re an introvert, there’s a good chance that you are just not aware that your conversation is not as interesting as you may think it is. Since you’re never been on a date, you probably can’t tell the difference when a girl is really interested or not.

    You should just get help from a professional dating coach, and they can teach you how to pick up women out in the real world. If you ask out at least one girl a day (for one year), and none of them agree to go on a date with you,…then you have my permission to stay single forever.

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