POF : to busy? what the heck?
ive gotten people who say im to busy to meet people or im to busy to sit and talk to you on here or w/e than why are you on a dating site if you dont have any time to use it? or not looking to date?
By. xRoseColoredBoyx
Like I said some people are fishing for compliments trying to get an ego boost.
Okay thanks for responding! Please take a deep breath I know you seem frustrated. You’ll encounter a lot of different things on the site that will seem frustrating bots, people who post (ask me later) in their profile (as you’ve noticed before), people that don’t want to meet (you’ve noticed this as well) , catfishes, people that will use you for dinner, people that will not reply, people that have horrible attitudes, and people that just seem like they’re wasting your time. You’ll run into a lot of different things the internet is a weird and rather awesome place at the same time.
I’d recommend you start asking for profile review tips, and post your profile link and let people critique you. Secondly, understand that all of the different players exist and work on messaging people, and sending them a message that actually seems like you’ve read the profile (not saying you aren’t) and see how things go from their.
Good luck!
It means they are fucking terrible, and liars.
Or they’re letting you down easily
it’s just their nice way of saying their not interested.
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THIS ALL OF THIS!!!!! So glad someone finally said this. I have been on and off POF since 09 and a few months back I messaged a guy who I found I had a lot in common with. His profile was great and he seemed great. I didn’t know that he did not really check the site though. Everything was great at first we met up and went on numerous dates and such within a span of 3 weeks we had such a great time together and he said he wanted to be more than dating at one point. Right after that was said he kinda got distant and he had other stuff he was busy with which was more important. Mind you the more important stuff was never the issue. The issue was he told me from the begining he likes to be in constant contact with a girl he is seeing like at least texting once every day or every other day. Then he all out got silent. We agreed to meet for a date one night and at the last minute he cancelled saying he had something else he needed to do. After that everything felt akward. We went out the next day and I thought we smoothed it over but nope, because literally 3 days later I had not heard a peep from him nothing. So I texted saying everything ok you mad or something I haven’t heard from you in 3 days and he got really upset. I didn’t speak to him for about 4 days after that because he seemed pissed. Well we worked it out and agreed to go out again but it felt super awkward again even more than before. About 4 days later I texted asking when he wanted to go out again, and never got a response. Waited 4 more days asked again and hey did you still want to go out again. He said we could be friends but nothing more than that. This was after he said we were more than just dating. I felt like he was so fake and that hurt. He said he was so busy and that he couldn’t make time for me anymore. I flat out said then why are you on a dating site if you have no time to date? I felt like he used that as an excuse and didn’t wanna really tell me why he didn’t want to keep going out. I haven’t gone on any dates since.
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