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POF : what the heck happened to POF? Came back after 7 years.

POF : what the heck happened to POF? Came back after 7 years.


I Recently got divorced, so im now ready to try my hand at dating again. Met my wife on POF 7 plus years ago, and as I recall I had no problem getting likes and getting conversations going with women. I remember people really use to flesh out their profiles. You could really get a sense of who someone was by their bio. Now 95 percent of profiles have little to nothing on them. Or they just say they like to hike and travel. Who doesn’t like to travel? Unless, you want to stay in the place you grew up in your whole life. I also swear 75 percent of these profiles are fake. I rarely get any likes, and im a decent looking guy. I have no problem getting female attention in real life. On here its like I don’t even exist.

Most of my messages go unread, or the rare conversations I do get, either die off quickly or I get short answers and no questions back. Im always super engaging and have a genuine interest to get to know who im talking to. I dont want to make generalizations, but it seems the average woman on pof is stuck up, is just looking for male attention and validation from a dating app, has no actual interest in finding anything serious, and are just looking for the hottest guy they can find, that will most likely treat them like shit. How the hell do you expect to find your soulmate, if you just swipe away on that potential person based off one photo? Or don’t even bother to get know someones personality by engaging in a conversation? RANT OVER.


By. bosredsox05

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  1. The biggest issue I run into is the number of women who have profiles but are only looking for someone to text. I had to start telling these women I have a two week limit, if we haven’t met in at least two weeks after we first messaged each other, then I’m not interested.

  2. It’s a train wreck. I came back 3 months ago, hated it but found a date offline, now I’m back again. It’s mostly the users these 3 month later, all looking for a Chad but a Chad that wants to be real, a long term etc. I’ve had several chats with ladies that felt like job interviews to be their husband. I’m like whoa! Let’s get past dating and friendship first. Sheesh. They only want to talk about what I offer and characteristics I must have, and pulling info about them is like pulling wisdom teeth – surgury is required.

    God i hate online dating….

  3. That’s exactly what it is now. Just girls seeking attention, with most not even interested in meeting. It’s just a way to pass the time. The « Live » is just as big a bullshit.

    I deleted my profile a week or so ago. Best thing I did of late.

  4. Wow, posts and comments like this make me think the guy pool on POF is exclusively incels. That’s not true (in my area), but you’re making it look like it. There are shitty people on dating apps. Just weed through them. Quit taking it so personally. Regular non-incel people take rejection as « oh well, their loss, » rather than generalizing everyone.

    (I am a woman on POF and I see plenty of crappy profiles, too, and some of the funniest/worst/grossest conversations I’ve ever had were on there. That doesn’t mean all of you are terrible people only looking for the hottest girl you can find so you can treat them like shit.)

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