POF : Why do so many people put « just ask » in all of the profile.
Job: just ask.
About me: just ask.
Conversation starters: just ask.
I mean what the fuck. 90% of them are women that are really really good looking, so i assume they are boring and just trying to get by on their looks.
The other 10% is just lazy as fuck. Why the hell would anyone who’s not just looking to Get their dick wet, « just ask » when there’s no indication that this person has anything in common with you.
« If i put all of my intrest in here and describe myself we won’t have anything to talk about. »
Bullshit, y’all just lazy..
This app gets worse by the month.
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I do not even bother with them. Sometimes they will message me and it is rare that they message more than 1 or 2 word responses. Like if you cannot put a token effort into your profile, what type of effort would you put into a relationship
I’ve thought about that as well and it pisses me off and it makes want to that person even less! I see that on OKC and the pisses me off more considering the fact that THERE ARE PROMPTS THERE FOR A REASON.
POF doesn’t have that and yeah, people are short on time but if you can’t at least take a few minutes to list a few interests or a tiny tid bit about yourself, don’t get pissy when you get thirsty people in your shit.
I have a decent amount of info about me on my profile and I still manage to get passed up faster than the nasty pasta salad that the least favorite aunt made.
I won’t message any guy that has the “just ask” no matter how good looking they are, its so lazy and I literally have nothing to go on to start a conversation.
Either one of two things: 1) there were put up to create a profile on a dare or 2) they are having enough success in real world dating they can take or leave online dating. Thus the lack of effort to put a few sentences together.
There are lots of reasons. The main reason being that they are good looking, and know that people are going to kiss their ass regardless. That’s 90% of the time why.
The other 10% are jaded. Maybe they had well constructed profiles, but all they’ve accomplished is being weekend pussy. Or it’s clear in every reply they get, that their profile wasn’t even looked at. Or they get a bunch of replies just asking to fuck.
I just went out with someone who had only one pic and no description. She is college professor.
She told me that nobody bothers with the profile so why put something there.
If I see that I presume a lot of somekind an keep moving
Most men don’t bother to read women’s profiles so it hardly makes a difference anyways.
Let’s not pretend that men also don’t put « just ask ».
Because all they need is a half decent picture of them smiling and they can sit back to pick through a plethora of messages, if it required more effort they would put in more effort.