POF : Women of POF have any of you ever actually met a guy in person??
So literally every single girl on POF or other dating sites is there for nothing but attention. Every single time they lead you on, make plans, then at the last minute they cancel and will do it again and again. And it’s not just me, I’ve actually been doing some research and this same scenario happens to eveey single guy that I’ve asked about POF. So women of POF can you please help me understand why you never want to go on real life dates? I mean it’s actually kind of creepy and weird that none of them will meet me or any other guy in person.
By. calvingrace
Met my boyfriend of 2 years on POF. Usually when there are common threads in our experiences it is not due to other people, it is due our part in the scenario. Have you thought about the possibility that it’s your attitude towards women and over-generalizations that cause women not to meet you? You seem really negative and honestly I got so mandy red flags thrown from reading your comments. Maybe you scare them off with your personality. You give off some major red flags for being possibly verbally abusive and I know many women that would run from that.
Yes I met someone Dec 2018. We are still a couple and just moved in together.
When I agree on a date with a guy, I always go, no matter what dating site I’m using.
I met my ex from POF and now I’m talking to another guy, our 2nd date will be in June.
I think the problem guys will face on POF, is that girls have a lot a lot of matches and messages from many many guys. So that way we can be a bit more pickier. I’m average looking, but I can get up to 80 messages from guys in a day, so imagine the good looking girls would get.
But in your case I just think the girls are rude, cancelling plans on the last minute. She might be a catfish or she doesn’t look like a profile pictures, or she’s just might have done it for attention like to gain more Instagram followers eccetera.. plus the pandemic plays a big part now
I have met several from POF and one was crazy and the other was a dud (lame). Most of the communications I receive from men are either from fake profiles, married men looking for fun, single men looking for fun or from men who can’t hold a conversation or simply there is no attraction or connection during the conversation.
The lame guy was about 10 years older looking in person than in his pictures.
I wouldn’t cancel on someone I have taken the time to make plans with.
I have noooo idea then dude. Unless you are always talking to the same type of girl, i.e high maintenance or something. The men I intend to ignore, I ignore from the get go. I don’t make plans and then flake out.
I hate to hear that. I am sorry that you have dealt with that. That’s not how I have conducted myself in POF. I am pretty much done with POF. The caliber of men just isn’t there for my area.
I’ve only had to cancel a meetup once, and made plans for the reschedule at that time. So, yes, any guy I set up a meetup with I will follow through unless he turns into a massive creep in the interim (it’s never happened).
Even then, I don’t paint all men the same and assume they are creeps. Can’t say the same for the OP’s poor view of women. Maybe they can sense that in the interactions? Just a thought.
Thanks. Maybe the girls there are shitty like the dudes around here are shitty, lol.
Exchanged live pics? Live
Chat? Talk on the phone?
Wish I knew to be honest. I’d be happy to tell ya lol
Lol all the downvotes are chicks who lead guys on. Typical