POF : Would everyone agree with this?
When meeting someone for the first time, you would AT LEAST like the person your meeting to either be pleasant to talk to or pleasant to look at? If it’s neither, it just seems like a complete waste of time, and you wanna go home after 10 minutes. That happen to me couple days ago. She was neither pleasant to talk to or look at, but I didn’t have the guts to end it fast enough. Had to sit there for an hour making painful conversation. I could also tell she was not having fun sitting there either. How long would you wait before ending the date?
By. reddit_benmartin
Usually only do 20-30 mins for first coffee, even if it goes well, arrange it so you contact each other after coffee if you both want.
I will always say it, meeting face to face is a game changer and should be done as soon as possible.
Don’t get caught up in texting/sexting.
I matched with Pamela one morning and that day at 2:30 pm we met to have drinks we were both running late so 3:00 pm, we set an hour time limit prior we’ll know if to kick each other to the curb.
She told me her company shirt color, I told her I’d wear my green dress and heels.
It went, great and we’re meeting again.
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I had a similar experience…except he apparently thought I was pleasant to look at or talk to because he kept asking me to spend more time with him. I finally gave him the excuse that I had a plant wilting in my car so I had to go home. Idiot couldn’t figure out I was ditching him and spent the rest of the night trying to get me to hang out after I took my plant home. *face palm*
Honestly, I had this once on a second date from hell after a first date from heaven. 20 mins after arriving at the destination I couldn’t handle it anymore so I got up and paid the waitress for the appetizers then said “I’m dropping you home I’m not sitting here awkwardly,” and started walking to the door before she can even process.
You’re never going to see them again, your time is more valuable so who cares.