POF : Wow why is it all about sex for some people?
So I had a guy message me, and now before I go into detail about what happened I want to make it wicked clear that not all guys are like this I know that, just some are like this.
He messaged me and we started having a good conversation, up until he said lets meet up tonight. I said sure where, and he said he wanted me to come to his place and he was basically looking for sex. Now my profile says no hookups please or one nights not my thing but yet he still proceeded to try to get that. I told him no and that I wasn’t interested. That is when it turned sour. He got all upset with me and started calling me names and becoming verbally abusive all because I would not sleep with him. Telling me I needed to take meds and that no guy was gonna respect a crazy girl like me, meanwhile he is the one being crazy. I was able to report them to POF and some of their messages. I mean why do some guys think it is perfectly ok to speak to a woman like that or have that kind of an attitude.
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im a guy and i hate guys that do this…. Cause then i come along and all I hear is how om probably their for one thing. That when i do het replys. like seriously due what the point of a one night stand. next week your gonna be nack at square one loney looking for it. for all u know that girl you just fuck last week could of been the one you keep saying you want to find. then after the rest of us dont get reply cause your gonna assumed that what were looking for. I cant blame you for it. I really cant cause sadlly that what most guys are looking for.
Not really sure why people, men and women go that route, guess they feel someone will take their offer eventually. If you’re both wanting the same, you’re grown adults, but if only one is into being bedroom buddies you can’t force the other by calling them names, just apologize and move on.
I’ve had a handful over the years get upset because I don’t get sexual, « am I not attractive to you? » one told me over the phone. Yes, but I’m getting a feel for you, some people are plain, some have sprinkles and others have crazy toppings.
I’ve had four so far tell me after about of week of talking and having lunch that they want to be dominated sexually, even though their profiles clearly stated they were god fearing, no hookups, and friends first. Of course they only think or talk they want to be, when it’s actually in front of them they’d back away quickly.
I’ll put money down this guy would totally suck in the bedroom, it would be all about him and ask what were you still doing there.
Grandma’s dating advice:
Don’t get too close right away, if you feel they’re worth it give them three months, they can’t hold their crazy in that long.
> Now my profile says no hookups please or one nights not my thing but yet he still proceeded to try to get that.
I guess men like that tend not to bother reading profiles. I do read profiles and I’m actually sick of seeing that in profiles. I don’t need to read it since I’m not just looking for sex.
Some people are just primitive. I think that’s the basic answer to your question.
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same reason why nice people do nice things. They are who they are.
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A. They don’t bother to read profiles B. Not worth your time. The moment they get like that, drop them.
I dunno. I feel like it’s that way for most men.
I don’t know what other women want, but I hear women also don’t want anything serious.
People who can’t respect your wishes aren’t worth the time of day.
I’m yet another woman who’s also been through that. It’s very common.
There’s always bad apples, just don’t let them ruin the rest of the batch.
As a guy, all I want from women is sex anyway but I will tell her whatever she wants to hear.
Women who say no hook ups or one night stands are usually the ones who do that. That way they can claim after it wasn’t what they wanted.
Some women pretend to be naive. One girl met up with me a few times in passing. Says her boyfriend cheated on her and she needs some strong arms to hold her. I come over and we start making out and then she seems really sad and misses her boyfriend. Since it took me 15 minutes to walk over I convinced her to give me a handy J and she went back to her boyfriend.
All guys just want sex.
That guy should have never acted that way. I will admit that I was only looking for sex on Pof (because it’s pof) however I never reacted that way. I’m sorry he did! I hope you have better luck in the future!!!
I wonder if you’re Kathryn from the ranting guy’s post?