Signs that a man is not interested in you: the 9 signs
You’ve noticed a man you might like, but you don’t know if that interest is shared. You have doubts, there are no clear signals that he would like to get to know you. If there are signs that a man is attracted to you, there are also signs that he is not. Obviously you would like the interest to be shared but if not, it is best that you find out as early as possible before you make movies. Knowing it will allow you to move on. How do you know if your interest in this man is mutual or not? How to understand that this man is not interested in you? Here are the 9 signs that show that a man is not interested in you, the essential signs that will save you precious time!
Signs that a man is not interested in you: the 9 signs
# 1 your messages go unanswered
Every time you send a message, the answer is delayed or does not arrive. He doesn’t bother to answer you or just trivialities distressing. You know perfectly well that he reads his messages because his phone is with him almost all the time. This unfortunately shows that he does not want to answer them or that he forgets which is not necessarily a good sign either. It’s a sign indifference and disinterest.
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# 2 you always take the first step
Whether it is in relation to unanswered messages or for a suggested exit, you notice that it is always you who are at the initiative and who takes the first step. He doesn’t try to hear from you and doesn’t ask to see you. The message is very clear about his disinterest. If you only send him one or two messages a week, you can’t be said to be pestering him, and yet he doesn’t bounce back. It shows that he doesn’t think about you and therefore doesn’t care about you.
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# 3 Your life doesn’t seem to interest her : one of the signs that a man is not interested in you
After several weeks, it is clear that what you tell him about yourself does not interest him more than that. Indeed, he does not remember what you do for a living, your last name or your age. It is not the behavior of an interested man, who would always be asking you a multitude of questions as trivial as important. Go your way, this man is not interested in you, so don’t waste your time on him.
# 4 he’s cold and distant
Some people are shy and therefore physically distant simply because they don’t dare. But now you know it’s not about that. You felt a certain coldness get away from him and no desire to get closer to you whether physically or emotionally, unlike a self-interested man who will use every opportunity to get closer to you.
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# 5 you’ve heard him talk about other women
Whether it’s to you during your rare exchanges or to others when you hear his discussions with his friends, he talks about other women. You’ve never heard of him before, and what’s more, you’ve seen him in the company of other women. This man might like you as a girlfriend, but unfortunately not for anything else. This is a clear sign that we should not seek to go further.
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# 6 your exchanges are superficial
As we mentioned earlier, you already have the feeling that your life is not really interesting to you. And this is still confirmed when you discuss together because your exchanges remain suerficial and platonic. He is cordial but does not reveal himself and, at the same time, does not seek to know more about you. He even sometimes goes so far as to cut the conversation short, as if he was bored … It’s obvious, and a little annoying but this man is not interested in you. Accept it!
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# 7 He « forgets » you
He forgets to call you back, to answer your messages and it has even happened that he forgets an appointment that you had of course organized. He always has a good excuse to justify his behavior but does not have the honesty to tell you bluntly that you do not interest him. Do it for him rather than asking yourself a thousand questions.
# 8 Your social networks don’t interest him
You may have noticed that he often posted or that he » liked »Many statuses or photos on several of his social networks…. Except yours! Even when he’s connected and you’re online too, he doesn’t bother to come and talk to you. The conclusion is therefore quick and you have the answer to your question. This man shows no interest in you, he is not the one for you.
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# 9 you never got a compliment from her : one of the signs that a man is not interested in you
When we like someone we always try, even if we are shy, to to compliment. Whether it’s on a piece of clothing, her hairstyle, her perfume or her laugh, it’s relatively easy to find something to compliment about. It is also through these little initial compliments that bonding can be born between two people. You never heard a single compliment from him it is therefore a sign which shows that you do not interest him. At best you can be friends, and still …
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