the 10 signs to recognize it
The feeling of love, what a mystery! A woman in love and a man in love do not necessarily have the same behavior, and the 2 people who form a couple will not fall not necessarily in love at the same time. Everyone has their own rhythm!
At the beginning, often everything is very beautiful all pink, your heart pounding when you see it, the relationship is magic. You write to each other often, you find yourself full of points in common. You think you’ve never felt so much emotion with someone. Maybe you’ve finally found the right one … You can spend hours together talking, cuddling, and the outside world is gone. In short, your life is made of glitter!
But once these first moments are over, when the merger gradually dies down and the relationship takes a bit of distance, you start to ask yourself questions. You don’t wanna lose him and wonder how he feels. You need to be reassured.
Some signs are obvious to you, but you are not sure? Let’s see together the 10 signs to recognize a man in love!
He has a tender gaze looking at you
The first obvious sign to recognize a man in love is his look. Look at the couples who really love each other around you, they always look at each other with benevolent eyes, full of love and tenderness. If your man is in love, he will look at you with sparkling eyes and a big serene smile all the way up to the cheekbones. When he looks at you you feel good, important and beautiful.
A man in love includes you in his life
He is not afraid to show up with you and tell his relatives about you. You do part of his daily life : “When I went to Muse’s concert with Aline…”, “Le restau L’Olivier? Ah yes it is not bad, I went there with Aline last week « , » A drink on Saturday night? I see with Aline and tell you that! » Your opinion is important for him also, to choose clothes or decoration for example.
It puts you first
Not only does he include you in his life, but you are also a priority for him! A man in love has to time to devote yourself, he takes the time to reply to your messages. You are important to him and you feel it. He has seen his friends a little less since knowing you, because he enjoys spending time with you.
A man in love takes care of you on a daily basis
It is kind and caring. He has a deep desire for you to please and take care of yourself. This man wants you to be well. He asks you from time to time if you have Need something : he offers you something to eat, gives you his jacket if you are cold, asks you if he sees that something is wrong.
He finds you beautiful, but not necessarily beautiful
Your man doesn’t put you on a pedestal like he did in the early passion. He is no longer in the period when he idealized you. He sees you as a be real, with whom he is lucky to be able to spend time. Your physique is less important, because it now knows many of your facets and he loves you as a whole. He finds you beautiful when you wake up, when you get out of the shower with your panda eyes, when you come back from jogging. Your man also knows how to appreciate when you put on your 31 on release days, he is proud to be with a beautiful woman like you.
He finds you exceptional
A man in love is someone who chose you for your special qualities. He finds you different from others, above the rest. He won’t necessarily pay you compliments often, because men are generally quite reserved on this subject, but he will make you understand by his gestures and attentions that you are extraordinary, because no other woman has all your qualities together.
A loving man is straightforward with you
He’s not afraid to tell you that another woman is pretty when you walk hand in hand. He dares to tell you that you are wrong, or that you should act in such a way. Quite simply because he want the best for you, and knows that you owes honesty cause you deserve it. Sometimes it is not necessarily done with tact, however …
It makes you feel safe
In his eternal quest for you to feel good, he makes sure you are safe. If you have to walk a long way at night, he offers to accompany you because he is not reassured. He seeks to protect you, to show you that it is present in case of concern. We also talk about emotional security here: it does not make you jealous on purpose or devalue you.
He encourages you in your projects
A man in love supports you in your projects if he knows that they are important to you. He believes in it and you encourage living your dreams. He like you to be independent and also have projects of your own. In the event of a hard blow if the project does not succeed, he will be there to reassure you.
A man in love links sex to feelings
Finally, he knows how to make the link between sex and feelings. When you have sex, it’s not pure sex without any emotional dimension. There you look in the eyes, tells you romantic words in the palm of your ear. He likes to pass your pleasure before his. Your man has learned what you love and knows how to apply it.
To summarize, a man in love can be recognized first of all by the way he looks at you, the little attentions, but above all the fact that he want the best for you. It’s all connected: His caring demeanor towards you stems from the fact that he wants you well.
Be careful, however, not to misinterpret his attitude during certain periods when he feels less well in his sneakers. Indeed, in case of difficulty, he will tend to make less effort and to take a little distance with you, the time to resolve his problems. It doesn’t mean that he’s not in love anymore, just that he needs some time for himself then.
If you feel like you are not a priority for him and it hurts you, you can participate in the free program “Become the priority” in 5 steps.
Do you agree with these 10 signs to recognize a man in love, or do you see others? Reply me in comment 🙂
Marie, your Love Mentor
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