The 5 key tips to make your ex regret the breakup!
After a separation, you don’t want to appear overwhelmed or diminished by this disillusionment in love. Sometimes you just have one thing in mind that can even turn into an obsession. The goal is to make your ex regret the breakup.
In the eyes of your friends, your relatives but above all your ex, you want to keep up appearances by making people think that you have turned the page and that you have permanently forgotten your story. Whether it is to get him / her back or to touch him / her in his / her pride you are looking in this way to hurt your ex.
There are different ways to make your ex regret the breakup. We have to admit that it can be a good idea to get your ex back if you have mastered certain basics, but this method also has its limits and is not to be used at all times. If your goal is to feed your ex with regrets, I suggest you discover, dear readers, how to proceed throughout this article.
How to make your ex regret the breakup?
- Take care to show the best possible picture
- Arouse a very slight jealousy
- Make her understand that you were meant to be together
- Do not show that you are still addicted
- Reveal your change to make him regret his decision
Here are 5 fundamental rules to follow when you want to make your ex regret having left us, but there are also many others that I present to you in this article. To go further and know the most effective strategy to put in place in your situation, I will direct you to my Book 70 pro tips to get your ex back.
Why would you want to make your ex regret the breakup?
Before using any trick to get your ex back, it’s important to know what is really expected of her. When you are in a romantic reconquest, you must not leave too much room for improvisation at the risk of losing control or letting yourself be guided by your emotions.
First of all, you should know that even when making the decision to leave someone, it is particularly difficult to overcome a breakup, especially if the feelings are still present. On the other hand, some of you may not yet know the best performing mechanics for get your ex back such as radio silence, resurrection, reseduction phases or the handwritten letter, for example, and in this case personalized coaching seems to be essential.
But in addition to these so-called classic techniques, there are also less direct strategies during which positive manipulation should be employed. Thus, for example, it is useless to recontact your ex in order to make him regret your breakup, simply by telling them that you are better off being alone. You have to be much finer in your approach and sometimes know how to put your ego aside!
For make your ex regret the breakup, it is therefore necessary to play with his feelings, with his sensitivity or with the doubts that may resurface, especially if it is he / she who made the decision to leave. Your main goal is to create a gap so strong in her mind that your ex will think that you weren’t so bad together after all! Know now that after a breakup what is most difficult to take is the feeling of loneliness. And paradoxically, it is especially when you decide to break that you are hit hard by this phenomenon.
Why you think ?
Quite simply because when you decide to leave everything, and even if the fulfillment was not there, you constantly wonder if you made the right decision. So this is the state of mind that your ex is in today. So a piece of advice: make the most of it!
Your ex needs to realize that it is by your side that he / she can be happy. Making your ex regret a breakup is therefore a way for him or her to question himself. It is a very effective method to rekindle the flame and save your marriage after separation.
Indeed, by causing a form of sadness, emotional deprivation or repeated questioning in him / her we can make him / her become aware of his / her love. You will therefore act to touch your ex but be careful, you are not doing it to hurt him / her but because your goal is to get back together.
How to get your ex back by making you regret your breakup
There are several methods to win back your ex by making him regret the breakup, I will describe four of them to you because they seem to me to be the most effective and they have already borne fruit for thousands of people.
Use his jealousy to make him / her feel guilty
When you pretend you’ve found someone, it will shock your ex. Sometimes you have to use the most drastic means to make your ex realize that he / she really cares about you. You will thus make sure that your ex gets closer to you and without going so far as to confess his real feelings to you, that he / she re-establishes communication or even better do reborn a little complicity. Thus, you will thus place yourself in a position of strength in the reconquest of love.
Be careful, however, not to adopt the same behavior as what you can see in the movies. This is fiction and “real” life has absolutely nothing to do with it. If your reconquest takes place in this way, you must first of all think about re-reduction and highlighting the change you are going to make.
Jealousy is a human feeling and therefore you need to use it wisely. When we have lived with a person we have this reflex of thinking that he / she belongs to us and that no one can experience something so strong, even long after the breakup. However, to recreate this attraction and this desire, he / she must feel like he is really losing you and this is how you will score points. Jealousy is a very strong feeling and it is normal to try to use it when you find yourself in such a situation. But this is a weapon to be handled with care because you shouldn’t do too much either
Go ahead to make her ex regret
Another solution, which can be very effective for regain the heart of his ex is not to react to separation. In other words, trick your ex into believing that the breakup doesn’t affect you, that you can move on without him or her, and that your happiness is unrelated to their presence. This time it’s not about jealousy, but about another feeling that you are playing with, pride. It is quite likely that this attitude will upset your ex.
For make your ex regret the breakup , you have to touch his pride, and make him understand that he / she does not deserve you.
In this way, that is to say by showing him / her that you live the separation better than him / her, the frustration will push him / her to commit again. We often expect after a breakup that the person left will run after us, especially when we know that the feelings are still present, but if you behave differently in addition to reacting well you will mainly force him / her to think and to rethink about you.
Become unique so that your ex comes back
Rather than wondering how to know if my ex regrets, actions must be put in place so that the question no longer even arises and that you are sure to make changes and to go in the right direction. The key is not, contrary to what we think, to focus on him / her but on oneself! This so as to give a new image following the breakup. It is up to you to succeed in the reconquest but for that it is not necessary to remain idle to do nothing and to let your ex continue to be in a position of control which is favorable to him.
Whether physically or psychologically, it is possible to create a new dynamic, but for it to be sincere it must first be put in place in your personal life and in your daily life. If it is only a facade, on the one hand he / she may notice it or sooner or later you will get tired of playing a role. Reclaiming love is a power struggle that must be controlled as much as possible. As I repeat regularly in coaching, it is better to be in action than in reaction to your ex!
Do not show your addiction so that your ex will regret!
We sometimes want to be romantic to show him how great a man or a great woman we were, we want to cause regret but not in a brutal way, but rather to make him have a wonderful time. You may think that with gifts or declarations of love your ex will come back. But the reality is very different ! You have to use a completely different scheme in order to get a reaction from your ex.
The fact of not putting yourself in demand and therefore not revealing his emotional dependence, will inevitably succeed you. You have to act differently from other men and women. Sometimes you have to continue to be inaccessible despite your feelings. This will indeed promote the questions that your ex will have about you and this will result in a number of questions about his decision. Going forward creates some frustration in the other person which is beneficial in your situation.
If you consider that these 4 techniques are difficult or painful to apply, or if you have the impression that it will not affect your ex, then I direct you to a personalized coaching session so that we set up a action plan that will give a strong impact to your reconquest. To find out more about the formulas that I offer, on the accompaniment or to reserve, you just have to click here: I WANT MY COACHING!
The limits not to exceed to infuriate your ex
Now let’s move on to the less cheerful aspects because not everything can be perfect! Unfortunately this method of making your ex regret the breakup in order to get him / her back has certain limits, otherwise everyone could use it and you would no longer need my expertise! However, human relationships are always more complex than we think and there are so many parameters that it is necessary to study things in depth.
Indeed, it may happen that the opposite effect occurs, that is to say, that your ex is walking away seeing that you have a new love or that the breakup hasn’t affected you. It is therefore essential to know your ex and his reactions well before implementing this technique. If it is in your ex’s nature to give up very quickly, to be pessimistic, you will probably need to use other methods to win him / her back.
As I explained to you the goal is not to hurt him / her and to create a conflictual situation which would be negative for the rest of your reconquest. This step should only be a way of reconnecting, for example, but should not become the basis of your strategy because if you rely solely on jealousy to reform a solid couple you are on the wrong track. We will have to act more in depth in reality.
You should not fall into your own « trap » either. When you decide to flirt with a man or a woman to make your ex jealous, you should not start an official relationship with him / her, I remind you that it is simply to make your ex come back to you for him / her make you regret your separation. The idea is in …
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