These 6 Compliments Men Would Like To Hear More Often
Without saying that there are good and bad compliments, not all are received in the same way. Mainly by men … But the following 6 types of compliments should do the trick and please more than one.
We have written many articles explaining to men that women need to be heard, listened to and loved more. But it is the same for men and today, we have decided to put them in the spotlight!
It is a subject that is not really discussed and it is a pity. Men love praise just as much as we do. Compliments do them good and also contribute to their well-being within a romantic relationship.
However, in most couples, women are the ones who most often receive compliments on their dress, their appearance or their personality.
And besides, if we turn to the middle of the song, I am able to quote you at least 10 titles whose text is a praise to the woman. On the other hand, I would be hard pressed to find more than 5 where it is a question of the generous forms of a man or his sex appeal!
Some of the compliments quoted here have been mentioned to me by men asking me to write an article on the subject, others by men I have met in the course of my work and still others come directly from my personal life experience.
Check out these 6 categories of compliments that men would – really – like to hear more often.
1. Compliments telling him that you believe in him
To melt a man, you don’t need to seek from noon to two o’clock: support him and believe in him. But above all, don’t forget to let him know, through a few words of praise.
Know that these compliments are the ones that the men who asked me to write this article most frequently mentioned as missing them. Telling the man you love that you believe in him will make him feel like he can win the moon!
Here’s how to tell him:
- I believe in you.
- I love the fire that burns in you.
- Whatever you decide to do, I know you can do it.
- Of course people are keen to partner or work with you. People trust you and they are right. Your work is extraordinary.
- I already knew you would get that new job (or raise). You are talented, you work hard and your colleagues know it.
- I am proud of you.
- You already have so many successes under your belt. And I know it’s far from over!
2. Compliments about his appearance / body
While men may be less subject to social pressures about their appearance, some are nonetheless self-conscious. After all, doubting his powers of seduction is natural and human.
What’s more, anyone (whether male or female) likes to know that they are pleasing to their partner. Praise her arms, eyes, hands, thighs, etc. Regardless, men certainly won’t be tough!
Here are some of the compliments that many men would love to hear more:
- You are so Handsome.
- I see you weren’t kidding when you told me you got back to sport! You are sublime.
- You are attractive and manly today. I really like it…
- This costume / outfit particularly looks good on you.
- You are beautiful when you laugh.
- Even when you cry, you are beautiful.
- You are always perfect … Even when you wake up with your hair in disarray.
3. Compliments that let him know that his efforts are recognized
Each of us likes to know that the efforts invested in the couple are recognized.
Show him that you appreciate what he does for you. Even the most trivial things. Pay attention to it and know how to be grateful for it. And when you verbalize your satisfaction, chances are it will only increase over time.
What’s more, it’s a way to let him know that you love him and therefore, a way for him to feel secure and loved in turn.
Whether he takes out the trash, replaces a light bulb or does the housework does not matter … What matters is that you recognize his actions on a regular basis.
Tell him for example:
- You are adorable.
- Thank you for making me dinner my love. It makes me happy and it’s delicious!
- Nothing can resist you, does it?
- I like your kindness and your thoughtfulness.
- Thank you for listening to me. It makes me feel good to be able to confide in you.
- I noticed you did x things. Thank you. It is a pleasure.
- I loved watching the kids play there. You were sexy. I love to see you release the pressure and have fun.
4. Compliments that show your respect for him
Several recent studies have shown that men closely associate love and respect. Moreover, the feeling of being respected would be even more essential than that of being loved for their psychological well-being.
Of course, we are all different and these studies should not be taken too seriously. We all need to be loved (too). But it is clear that men (like women for that matter) need to feel respected by their partner to maintain a healthy relationship with her.
A few words to tell him:
- You are a good person.
- I have a lot of respect for you.
- I am proud of you.
- You are so caring with my loved ones. You are kind to others and I find that extremely respectable.
- You have to be brave to approach this type of discussion or admit your mistakes. But you did and for that, I admire you. I am more and more seduced!
- The more time passes, the better you get.
- You know how to forgive. It’s a beautiful quality that requires a lot of strength and that’s what makes a man really qualify as such.
5. Compliments that show you have confidence in him and his ability to make decisions.
Whether it’s social conditioning, genetics, or whatever, many men need a sense of « control » (over their lives and over their human relationships) to be. feel good about themselves.
Let her know that you admire her and trust her outlook on life, by telling her things like:
- I believe in you.
- I will follow you to the end of the world.
- I’m on your side.
- You are always very good advice.
- You are brilliant.
- You are rarely wrong.
6. Compliments that make him understand what effect he has on you
Overall, all men like to feel attractive and see a woman swooning over them. Attraction is a powerful feeling that is good for everyone, men and women alike.
Tell him that’s how you feel when he’s around you:
- When you’re around, I can’t help but blush.
- You are the funniest man I know.
- I could drown in your mysterious gaze.
- You always know how to make me smile.
- I have never felt so secure as with you. I love that you are there.
- You make me a little something in the pit of my stomach.
- You give me wings. By your side, I feel capable of anything.
- I feel supported and that means a lot to me.
- I have never wanted a person so much. I could almost faint with desire …
Remember, there are some men who will be more sensitive to certain types of compliments than others. If in doubt, try them all … In any case, it will never be unpleasant!
What is certain is that sincere compliments are a happiness for the heart, whether one is born male or female!
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