Tinder : Is this shady? Or am I overthinking?

Tinder : Is this shady? Or am I overthinking?

So, I (27F) matched with this really good looking guy (27M) about 69 miles away from me. I matched using Gold, and honestly, I normally would not give a guy more than 25 miles from me the time of day, but this guy was…oof.

And the first thing he said to me was not come to my house to cuddle *wink*, or your leggings would look good on my floor ( both of which I’ve gotten), so this was already starting out pretty good. His account is verified, which I don’t know if that actually means anything? Like how accurate is that?

But anyways, he asks for extra pics, which I assume it’s so he can verify I’m not a catfish. So, he asks for my snapchat, but I don’t have one because I’m just not that into social media or constantly taking photos or videos of myself. My Facebook and Instagram have not been updated in I know like over 6 months. I’m just not that into it. I tell him I don’t have one, but we can exchange numbers or video chat. He asks me again to send him a pic, which I don’t mind, but I don’t think he knew you can’t send pics via Tinder. So, I tell him that little fact since he completely avoided my initial suggestions of exchanging numbers or videochatting. Then he asks me to make a snapchat and I’m like…wtf?

My spidey senses start tingling. What’s his endgame here? I get not necessarily wanting to videochat someone you don’t know. But what about the number thing? Is he just trying to get nudes without giving his personal number, or is he just super cautious about giving out his number? Like women are. Is he a catfish despite being verified?

I know you guys obviously can’t answer that, but am I right to think something is off here? Should I even bother making a snapchat I won’t use?

By. MysticCherryBlossom