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Tinder : Me being self destructive irl

Tinder : Me being self destructive irl



Me being self destructive irl


By. globhobdobbler

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  1. Personally, I do this because I was hurt badly in my last relationship, and falling for someone is still terrifying for me. It doesn’t make any sense, I know.

    It’s deep though. I once got out of the shower before a date, then laid down in bet for 45 minutes, unable to move, until I showed up late and she was already over me. We met up and went to a party.

    At that party, another girl was hitting on both me and my friend. I let me friend have her, since I’m moving away soon anyway.

    I keep meeting fantastic women and then set about destroying any chance of ever being truly close to them.

  2. I do this also. It’s driven by fear. Fear of ruining a good image you think you instilled that person. Afraid of ruining a positive experience.

  3. Currently on the « deleted tinder » phase of the viscous tinder cycle, and I have to say that this is one of the big reasons why. I’ve just come to terms with the fact that not everyone is a decent person lol. Eh, live and learn though.

  4. thats me right now 🙁 even had someone i met at a party find me and message facebook to ask if i want to go get coffee some time.. haven’t replied.

    i’m dumb.

  5. I don’t know why people ghost. Like what purpose does it serve, unless it’s maybe warranted (e.g. creeps).

    Like…at a certain point, just grow up and be an adult. Say you’re not interested and call it there. It’s not that damn hard.

  6. I don’t think so baby!! But, if you want to win her back send her a couple of texts every day so she knows at least that you care about her and show off your stupid ass!! Even if you look like you want to die!! Not smart dude!

  7. Being ghosted suuuucks. I’ve literally had a guy ask for my number on tinder, text me hi, then ghost me when I responded. Wtf? Why go to the effort of sending a message if your intentions are shit. Ugh. /Rant.

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