Tinder : We are beggars, not choosers…
We are beggars, not choosers…
By. CowSniper97
We are beggars, not choosers…
By. CowSniper97
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women only want one thing and it’s to defeat the evil intergalactic Emperor Zurg
And when i get a match, I’m thinking is it scammer acc? is she this desperate? or what…
In case anyone wants to see an experiment. Attractive female on Tinder vs. attractive male on Tinder: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lY8rzo4Ik4M
It’s literally two different realities.
Edit:
A few people are mentioning this, the experiment where an attractive guy who admits to a heinous crime (something worthy of Law & Order SVU (and doesn’t show much remorse for it)) goes on Tinder: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=200MxJVyk3I
The narrator’s voice and tone is kind of annoying, and the video is too long (hate how YouTube incentivizes this), so I recommend fast forwarding through it if you’re curious about the results.
Depressing af.
Met my wife on Tinder. At an early point in our relationship we sat down together and erased our dating profiles. She had *looots* of messages from guys. The vast majority of them were low effort trash, but still, the number was like 500x mine.
« 200,000 units at the ready with a million more well on the way. »
My r/r4r experience
The other day I got to look at my friends tinder profile. 3,300+ likes in a 30 mile radius in the course of 4 days. I was baffled and that showed me how truly disadvantaged men are on tinder. I just told her to ignore the number and focus on swiping on profiles she actually likes.
You’ll quickly ruin tinder for yourself when you see a woman’s account. My girlfriend setup an account to show me and she has “999+ matches” by the end of the day
I had one like last week. My sister has 4,200.
Yeah once I was making small talk with a bartender. And we got to talking about tinder. So she show’d me her profile. Not trying to be a dick but would not have swiped on her and irl was worse. Kids, bad cheap tattoos, out of shape, bad teeth i’d say some kind of drug problem but I dont want assume. She had hundreds of matches with guys out of my league. It was at that moment I said fuck tinder. Y’all guys are some thirsty MFs saturating the market.
in all countries and all messages platforms
Tinder is basically a feel good game for women and a shit show for the men
Ha idk who has dms like this but it ain’t me
Just accept get matched with those profiles with pictures of Chinese models and pretend ur interested in learning how to invest in crypto. Then they’ll respond to you all the time
Bruh this is the saddest subreddit. It’s just desperate dudes
Been on for a couple months now, have a few matches every so often but no responses ever.
Clearly my dumb mouth fucks it up or they’re bots…
This is why I don’t use dating apps anymore. Tinder made me think I’m ugly and good for nothing. Until I went to Uni and so many girls called me handsome and I had the time of my life. Can’t wait to go back to third year. Dating apps fucking sucks they’re just ego boosters and mental drainers. Go talk to people in real life, way easier.
I think Tinder is a human example of how male animals in the wild end up looking all colorful and having awesome mating dances. You gotta stand out!
Now, does this situation translate to those who are also swiping on the same gender?
You know what I don’t understand? When I get matched, she messages first and then I get ghosted, likeee??? Logic absolutely missing
The other day there was a guy on here posting about how tinder was garbage and he never got any good replies and then in the comments he was like « lol yeah I lie to all the girls swipe right on them all and c/p the same lines to them »
Like wow… I can’t believe your complete lack of original and sincere effort isn’t getting you any sincere effort back! Crazy!
This actually depresses me
That’s why you swipe right on the fat ones * taps side of head *
That is why you use your superlike wisely
I might sound a bit pollyannish saying this, but I did not appreciate how far off the deep this app has gone the past few years. I remember using it in 2016-2017 and having a good amount of success (was living in a college town which probably skewed things, but still) and getting a regular amount of likes and typically having someone to talk to, even ended up meeting one of my exes on the app.
A few years later and holy shit it’s bleak. Nothing has changed about me basically, but sheesh. I’m lucky to get a like or two a week, and just about always its from people I wouldn’t give a second thought to in a bar or club or whatever (I hope this doesn’t come off as mean, but there is a certain amount of objectivity with dating.) It seems like Tinder has done a remarkable job tanking their app in just a few short years.
the red flag is that she matched with me in the first place
And to add insult to injury, she probably isn’t even a 4 in real life. Someone you wouldn’t even look twice at.
My wife and I both had over 600+ matches and on a whim I messaged her something because I thought she was gorgeous. Turns out we both love (or love to hate) League of Legends, and it was enough to spark a conversation that would eventually lead us to getting married. She’s the women of my dreams and I get terrified thinking how easy it would have been to miss out on being happy for the rest of my life, by thinking she wouldn’t talk to me over the other 600 people.
Never give up guys.
I’d say about 1/3 of guys even message these days. Though I will say I seem to almost exclusively match with the popular people in my area because it’s usually giving me the “use a super like to stand out, this person’s popular!”
Of the messages I get 45% are a variation of “hey” “sup” or “what’s up”, 45% are a generic pick up line I’ve heard before and I gotta act like a proud mom putting their kid’s shit drawing on the fridge, and 10% actually comment on my bio or pictures or have something original to say (which I prefer).
I’ve generally learned to message first but a lot of guys have barren or boring as hell bios. Which then leaves me with “sup” or a generic pick up line which, as mentioned above, I generally don’t like- so I often just don’t message them at all.
What if men just stopped giving it away for free. Imagine such a world. We’d be tiktok stars, e-girls, streamers. Wait fuck, no abort.
I know this is going to sound like the wrong side of the argument here, but this makes it worse for girls using tinder, too. If you’re trying to use it as a true dating app (not just a hookup app) and you want to find someone who *actually* chose you and is interested in you, but you have a wall of people only expressing interest because they feel like they HAVE to express interest in EVERY match they get (and they swipe right on everybody), then it’s that much harder to find someone who is actually interested in you as a person. All they want is some ass. Even if they do their darnedest to express a specific interest in you, you have to question whether they’re just doing it for the ass. Because they don’t even « get this far » with most matches.
The whole culture of tinder has caused such a divide that the app is nearly unusable.
that’s true in the gay dating world as well: normal gay gays DMing hot gay guys
Her: « hi »
Also her, thinking: * »I wish he would say more than just hi, and put in effort* »
Some girls on tinder are the biggest fucking hypocrites I’ve ever met…
Although I did meet my gf of the last two years on tinder… But I did say « some girls » not all.
This is the most accurate thing I’ve seen on this sub