What is a healthy couple relationship?
Any woman who wants to be in a relationship aspires to live a healthy relationship in which she can flourish. But what exactly is a healthy relationship? What I realize is that these women who use my services have difficulty identifying a healthy relationship. Still too many women believe that a relationship is necessarily complicated. Yet, in my experience, there is nothing more wrong. A healthy relationship should be simple and pain free.
You must have fun together, feel that it is easy to be together, that it flows like a stream in the spring. If it’s already difficult at first, imagine what it will be like when the honeymoon is over.
1st criterion of a healthy relationship: it brings more to your life
A healthy relationship, first of all, is a relationship that you choose, which brings something more to your life and which does not fill a gap: whether it is loneliness, an emotional void, a lack of self-esteem. self, etc. You choose this relationship because it corresponds to your values, your needs, your project as a couple.
2nd criterion of a healthy relationship: you feel safe there
In a healthy relationship, you feel secure. You are not always doubting the love of the other, you are not afraid of being hurt, you feel that you can be yourself and express your opinions and feelings freely. You feel totally good.
3rd criterion of a healthy relationship: there is a real sharing
It is a relationship in which you receive as much as you give. You don’t have to be the one who always takes the first steps, who adapts her schedule to that of the other. You really feel the other person’s desire to spend time with you. You are on the same wavelength as your partner when it comes to engagement. You are not afraid that he will take his legs around his neck when you talk about the future. His implication in the relationship is obvious.
4th criterion of a healthy relationship: it does not take up all the space in your life
Your relationship as a couple is only one aspect of your life. Certainly important, however, it does not occupy all the space. You have a developed social life and your partner encourages you to do activities without him. He shows no sign of jealousy and vice versa. You give each other space for your life outside of the couple.
5th criterion of a healthy relationship: respect
And finally, the biggest sign of a healthy relationship is respect. Respect for who you are, for your limits. You are caring for each other and you encourage each other to be successful and flourish.
In closing, if you have doubts about your relationship and want to work on certain aspects of it, do not hesitate to do like dozens of women before you: contact me. I have your loving welfare at heart.
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