38 signs that show he’s not in love
1. « You are the only one I want to be with »
Of course it’s always flattering, but you have to read between the lines (yes, yes you have to be wary) what is the real message that he sends to you? « Nothing is gratuitous in feelings, and sweet words always echo a manifestation of the unconscious ».
A man who says to you: « You are the only one with whom I want to be », He admits in a nutshell that he continues to think of other women, even if it’s still a fantasy. A man who is genuinely in a relationship doesn’t need to position you in relation to other women, you’re the only one, period.
– Stop !! We open our eyes!
If it starts like that, it’s a bad sign then Next…
2. He tells you “I love you” but only during sex.
« It is better not to say anything than to say little things »
Quote from Jean-Baptiste de La Roche.
What is said in a moment of passion is delicate, and you should not trust whatever words he can say to you. (Yes, at the time it’s nice, but we know deep inside us that words are not meant to be…).
– Stop !! We open our eyes
Doubt sets in hmmm it’s not good …
3. He is not affectionate.
Of course, there are some who are less demonstrative than others. But hey, all the same love is made of physical contact and rapprochement. (If it leaks leaks the contacts in addition to not provoking them, it is a bad sign).
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
Not demonstrative, nor expressive it can happen but hey, be careful it will destroy you then Next…
4. He makes promises… he doesn’t keep.
Promises, always promises, it’s too easy, anyone can make them. Rule number one in any romantic relationship is that actions are more important than words. Does he make promises he never keeps? Beware, there is probably a reason for that… (haaa these men .. ”sigh”).
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
Broken promises are easy but watch out girls, actions have more impact than words.
5. He speaks in the future, but the future never comes.
Even if he is not in love, a man likes to be reflected in a good image of him. Making plans, putting stars in your eyes, it boosts your ego. (always a story of pride!) But a man in love acts, if he is not he will only blabble. Love is always present in the present!
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
He sells you dreams, but if you never see the color of it, he’s just a talkative (he doesn’t want to bother)… Next
6. He doesn’t answer you.
You send him a message on Facebook, a little joke to make him laugh (because « laughing boy » …). Or you send him a cute text. And you wait, you wait, you wait …
Heart pounding (yes like all girls, as soon as we wait we have 10 000 palpitations) so you have several reasons (he is at work, in the car, in a place where he has no network , that he is very busy, or the worst that he sees another girl…) yes all these things have already crossed our mind.
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
A boy who doesn’t respond to your messages (or two days later) isn’t a distracted or super busy boy, he just doesn’t care about you. Because when a guy falls for a girl, he always finds the means to answer her, and as soon as possible.
7. He is in no hurry to see you.
You had a date or you met at a party. You have completely cracked and you are dying to see him again as soon as possible. But for its part, it is not reciprocal.
A clue that does not deceive? He’s in no hurry to meet you again.
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
If he finds some bogus excuses / excuses to delay your next interview, that’s a pretty bad sign. Yes because in general a guy who flashes on a girl will do everything to see her again as quickly as possible.
Likewise, if seeing you only once every two weeks doesn’t bother him more than that, it’s because he’s not addicted and he doesn’t want to be bigger. knowledge. Because even tired, even sick, or super busy, a guy will always manage to see the girl he likes.
8. He doesn’t even look at you.
An addicted boy has stars in his eyes when he falls for a girl. Without covering her with compliments, we feel that he is proud to be by her side, that he finds her charming, that he is happy.
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
If you can’t see anything in her eyes, even when you arrive with your look that you’ve spent hours in front of the mirror or even hours knowing what outfit you were going to put on. He doesn’t even dare to touch you, to touch you, he never paid you any compliments, it’s not very encouraging. You deserve a boy who considers you a goddess of love, right?
9. You are not his priority.
He prefers to spend his weekends with his group of friends rather than with you, he goes to places where he could offer you to come, but no… In short, this boy has a busy life and obviously does not have it. ‘intention to change anything for you.
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
A relationship is a two-to-one experience, right? If he’s not ready to make room for you in his bubble, if he doesn’t miss you « more than that », ask yourself the right questions. Are you ready to hang on to a guy who is fleeing and unable to invest? You are better than the « crumbs » he gives you.
10. He doesn’t give you anything.
You, in love, you invest yourself thoroughly to please him. Organization of romantic outings, small gifts… So many gestures that he seems to appreciate… without giving you anything in return!
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
Even if this boy lacks imagination, there is always a way to please a girl with little touches. (and yes, they are smaller and simpler, they are the ones that make the most fun.)
Better open your eyes now: this guy is selfish and doesn’t care about your well-being. One-way relationships? Bof!
11. He treats you like a « buddy ».
No tender gestures, no dirty jokes, no pat on the back; no small affections … Maybe this boy is very shy, modest, and he has trouble showing his feelings. But is that a reason to treat you like a good friend?
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
He obviously has trouble seeing you as an object of desire. For him, no need to kiss you for hours for him to show you his affection. A few small, tender gestures from time to time are enough. If the temperature of your relationship is approaching -10 ° C, drop it, Next …
12. He hides you.
You’ve been together for several months and yet you haven’t had the honor of being introduced to anyone (neither friends nor parents). He doesn’t hold your hand in the street either, and doesn’t spend more than three hours with you. In the end, you have the impression that he hides you like a secret of which he is almost ashamed.
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
Ah OK; well he obviously has no intention of making a place for you in his life. That he is independent and in love with his freedom, I grant everyone loves his independence. But there are limits, sharing is also part of a fulfilling romantic relationship. If he keeps you too far away, take to the sea! Next ..
13. He’s flirting with other girls.
Since you met him, you only see him. It seems that the other boys have deserted.
On the other hand, for his part, he has not lost his good old hunting habits. And even if he is « in a relationship » with you, that does not prevent him from going to sleep next door.
He doesn’t hesitate to pick up on his Facebook wall (even though he knows you can see everything), he’s going to have a drink with his ex (because yes, he keeps all his exes under his elbow, it’s rewarding) , he bumps into one of your girlfriends a few meters from you …
– Stop !! We open our eyes:
He continues to behave like a bachelor. (No worries) Take it at its own game and set it free!
14. He forsakes you.
He says he loves you, but spends most of his time away from you and by choice (on top of that). With friends or have a drink with his best friend. He comes home later and later in the evening, and as if he hadn’t had enough, he still finds a way to leave « you ». This situation annoys you and makes you suffer so you tell him, he makes no effort and is content to put the blame on you (there must be a fault in the story). In these words, you are a possessive woman unable to be independent and that is why you do not let go of your sneakers. Maybe you really are but maybe you have good reason to worry about his love for you.
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
Ok, he says he loves you, that he has feelings, but if it’s to spend more time with his friends than with you, you are no longer part of his life but you are just ‘an option. Next…
15. Tears are more present than smiles.
Why do you insist on staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy? Why hang on for weeks, months, years on a “love” story that makes you suffer? (well you’re sadomasochistic… or what?) Love is not supposed to make you suffer, but rather to fill you with happiness and blossom !. You can be offended after an argument, smash the vase that mother-in-law gave you because it crossed the line and you are very upset. But in any case, you must be in a state of pain eating away at your daily life.
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
Think about the good times and the bad for 2 minutes, do the math and you will see things. If the calculations are wrong Next…
16. He puts you down.
He can’t stand the way you dress, let alone the way you think. He always criticizes you, he never misses an opportunity, (between your extra pounds or your haircut, or even that he criticizes you in public, in front of your parents or your friends) you are his punchig ball
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
This guy, he doesn’t respect you and it will get worse and worse so Next…
17. Compliments are not part of his vocabulary.
He never gives you compliments, nor does he try to please you. It’s not his shyness that makes it, it’s that he just doesn’t see the point. According to him, no need for spice, kindness or attention. Yet everyone needs recognition, especially from our partner. How to have self-confidence, how to feel beautiful and desirable, how to feel loved in the face of so little consideration?
-Stop!! We open our eyes:
Never compliments of his boyfriend, he believes that everything is taken for granted, unfortunately not!
We girls need to feel valued, complimented…. So Next.
18. He is jealous and possessive.
I will not dwell on this subject because I think it is clear. A man who won’t let you breathe, prevents you from going out with girlfriends, scrutinizes your movements, reads your texts and uses your passwords every day, Red alert !!!! . You lock yourself in a stressful bubble, in a life based on the exclusivity of your companion. You will realize later that there will be no more freedom.
-Stop !! We open our eyes:
He is jealous, possessive, filters you in your every move Red alert !! he will end up suffocating you so Next … (it’s unlivable)
19. He does not communicate.
In general, he is not a big talker. At the table he doesn’t have much to talk about, in bed (let’s not talk about it) he prefers to sleep, otherwise the television furnishes the evenings well. But the worst is during the headaches. When he is angry he decides to close in on himself completely. (the uqi thing annoys you even more) you can scream, …
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