POF : Is there any way to stop getting blocked constantly? I’m messaging sparingly, being polite as possible, but still getting blocked
It happened just now, I got blocked by a woman when I sent a simple « Hello X, where did you go on vacation in your second picture? It looks like a nice place ». (replace X with her name)
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She blocked me. I don’t understand what I did wrong. I don’t actually care that I got blocked, but when this happens too much, your account gets banned.
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I’m messaging as sparingly as I can. I’m only messaging women who I believe I have a lot in common with, or women who I believe are at/below my looks level (given that online dating is a lot about looks). Doesn’t seem to make a difference even when I do this.
By. BumblingBeta
Nope, the website is designed to cycle out the male userbase by getting you banned once enough women block you, there’s no way around it.
There is really no way to avoid being blocked because its out of your control. Women as used to th abuse that comes from rejecting someone so they block to avoid you ever contating her again (this will happen often).
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I think alot of women do not even realize it will get a guy banned so I dont think most are doing it purposely and maliciously.
I dont think pof is even really worth using anymore.
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Which is sad because I met my wife on pof