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Dating : 4 Habits of People Deeply in Love

h2>Dating : 4 Habits of People Deeply in Love

One day, a Japanese man in our small town thanked my husband and I for the way we were. “You seem so happy together,” he said, “And that’s good for our young people to see.”

My husband and I were newly married at the time, but understood that in order to remain happy together, we needed to develop habits that kept us that way.

We eventually became friends with an elderly couple in Japan who seemed like a match made in heaven. They had been married 56 years and still seemed as in love as newlyweds.

Curious as to what made them different from all the couples around them, we watched them. For over a year we observed them, noticing what it was that made them stand out.

We noticed four distinct things this couple did differently — four reasons they were able to find happiness in their marriage when so many others were not.

1. They were always aware of the other’s needs.

When it was chilly out and the wife forgot her jacket, her husband gave her his. When his leg was hurting him and it hurt to walk, she supported him as best she could.

When we’d get together with other people for a meal, they’d make sure to grab some of their favorite foods for each other — and always gave the other the better piece.

They weren’t selfish in any way, and truly put each other before themselves — even if it was hard.

2. They gave their best versions of themselves.

Many people think once you’re married you don’t have to try as hard, but not this couple. They were kind to each other, they always said please and thank you, and they never snapped or shouted.

They made remembering special occasions a priority and got dressed up for each other. They gave compliments freely and sincerely, treating each other as if they were the most precious thing they’d ever possessed.

They didn’t stop trying once they got married; they didn’t even stop 56 years later. They always considered each other as the thing in their lives to try for.

3. They did everything together.

Wherever he went, she was by his side. Whatever she was doing, he wanted to be near her. We always knew that if we were going to a gathering, we’d see the both of them.

If the husband wanted to garden, they gardened together. If the wife wanted to cook something new, the husband chopped the vegetables. Even if what they were doing wasn’t the same, the other was always close by.

They always included the other in everything they did. They didn’t lead separate lives, not even close. They genuinely loved each other’s company, seeking their spouse out as a companion above all else.

4. They never stopped showing physical affection.

Even though they’d been married for such a long time, it was easy to see that showing love through touch had been there every step of the way.

They weren’t overly affectionate or full of PDA by any means, but they showed their love through simple gestures. When they’d walk down the street, they’d hold hands. If we were listening to someone talk, the husband would put his arm around his wife.

They were gentle and loving in the way they interacted with each other, their smiles and hugs full of meaning and devotion.

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