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About Living

Firstly, What are we talking about when we speak of Ego?

Ego is a psychological/philosophical term. It was first proposed by Freud in psychoanalysis. It is usually translated as “self”, which is similar to the existence of “animality” in human beings.

However, as a rather abstract concept, it has been affected by factors in different social contexts culturally and geographically, and gradually evolved into a term that is somewhat ambiguous. It is similar to the ancient Chinese expression “one that can only be understood but cannot be explained”.

In the Chinese context, it seems that it is difficult to find a vocabulary that corresponds exactly to the word “Ego”, but you will not be unfamiliar with this concept: “rigid, greed, hatred and ignorance” which are often said as the poisons in Buddhism; and “little self”, “heart demon”, “hell”; even the “original sin” and “devil” mentioned in Christianity… are all carefully touching what we call “Ego” today.

The popular Carnegie series from the 80’s, “The Weakness of Human Nature” (in contrast, those of Bo Yang’s “The Ugly Chinese” are too narrow-minded, because this is a universal topic of human nature, not a Chinese-specific topic. It’s just a product of the universal algorithm in different cultural environments.) In recent years, the popular British evolutionary scholar Richard Dawkins wrote “The Selfish Gene”. There are countless success studies, PUA tutorials, officialdom studies, marketing studies, and even the well-known “The Art of War (I think it is better to translate it into “The Art of Confrontation”). Such studies are all based on the law of “Ego”, hence I call it “the algorithm of human nature.”

I won’t drop the book names one by one to quote the classics. After all, I am here to solve problems, not to create problems. There is no need to introduce a large number of concepts to confuse the audience. Various concepts and definitions break away from the context in which they were born at that time, and become a puzzle in themselves.

In fact, what we now call “Ego” has been vague and ambiguous for thousands of years. Almost all civilizations and religions have been painstakingly trying to explain this extremely abstract concept in their own way.

Firstly, they were limited by their cognitive systems; secondly, hierarchy was determined by the level of education received in the old times, which led to people being practically illiterate with the ability to only think in concrete terms; therefore, the ancient way of telling stories often used words such as “devil” and “angel”, or in Chinese fairy tales words like “Grandpa Sun”, “Mother-in-law Moon”, and “The Milky Way is a river in the sky”. These all sound absurd today, and mature adults with sound minds understand that this is only an expression of symbolism and imagery, and they will not be saying “Grandpa Sun” after they grow up. Similarly, one will not ask “Does God really exist?” Instead, the topic to explore is “In the context of today’s consciousness science, what does it mean to decipher the ancient image of ’God’?”

In ancient times, the logical thinking systems that truly formed intellectuals are Buddhism, which is dharma (rigorous methodology) and Confucianism. (Taoism is cosmology, which has gone beyond the scope of discussing ‘ego’ and is an advanced course)

Both Buddhism and Confucianism are atheism, most of the temples enshrined by fellow believers have nothing to do with Buddhism. A place of religious atmosphere comes from the folk belief in the “witch doctors”, which used the structure of Buddhism and Taoism to tell folklores.

For example, “Wu Sheng Guan Yu” was appointed god by later generations. Folk custom enshrines various sages and saints who have power beyond ordinary people. People began by showing such figures respect and commemoration, and they became spiritual sustenance over time, deified as the guardian of a region or an industry.

When Buddha was alive, like Confucius, Socrates, and Plato, they were all sages and great philosophers who appeared in the “axis age” of mankind. They shared the truth, and gradually they were followed by more and more disciples, forming the concept of the so-called “sangha” and “school”, similar to our modern day “university”. Such as the famous Pythagorean School of Ancient Greece, the Academy of Athens, etc. This is why Buddhism and “The Analects” are mostly quotations, because they were originally excerpted from the teacher’s notes.

Considered to be the oldest university in modern times, the University of Bologna originated like this. It was formed by scholars gathered in Bologna and their followers during the Renaissance (revived the humanistic spirit of the ancient Greek era). University originally was supposed to be a gathering hub of ideas, it is a “temple” for people seeking truth to study the universe. Therefore, the Latin term used in English to call university “University” is derived from the same root of “universe”.

The Huaxia Civilization began to respect Confucianism from the Western Han Dynasty, and later the world-famous imperial examination system, which made Confucianism the main body of ancient Chinese higher education. The Chinese term “university” comes from the Confucian classic “University”. In “University”, questions of “self-cultivation, and the management of family, the country and the world” was discussed. It is similar to the “Mahayana” in Buddhism where the salvation of human beings is the purpose of learning, and it is different from the “Hinayana” which pursues “individual Nirvana”.

So what is the difference between the ancient university and the university we are familiar with in modern times? I think it sits in the core difference between “Tao” and “Shu”. Shu can be taught, which translates to “skill”, “method” or “technique”, but Tao can only be achieved by enlightenment.

Modern universities are based on the academic classification system of “Western-centrism”, dominated by science and technology, they are more like a higher vocational and technical education center; while the ancient higher education pays more attention to the personal growth at both mind and spiritual level (which is what we are familiar with in the modern days as “personal and self development). The “shu” of professional skills such as what we learn now in universities is a by-product.

For example, Confucianism emphasizes the “cultivation of one’s body and mind”, and it is the methodology of how to reconcile with “Ego”. In fact, the reason why Confucianism has become the leading philosophy of Chinese civilization in the longest history is that it is basically an ancient society’s guide book for life cultivation.

Our ancestors studied in depth the algorithm of human nature and of “Ego”. They shifted their focus from the study of the material world, to the study of the relationship between human beings and the relationship within oneself. They discovered that in the end, the core of solving all problems is to solve the problem of “people”, hence the fundamental is to study “the complexity of people’s mind” which falls in the category of social psychology.

The “feudal era” of ancient Chinese society for more than 2000 years (however the definition of this Western concept does not actually correspond to the actual situation of ancient Chinese society), it seems to be a large-scale anthropological sociological experiment based on ego and human nature algorithm, which has accumulated “big data” for a power structure society.

The studies summed up various experiences and lessons, and wisdom shines in popular Chinese folk sayings. At the same time, it also breeds studies on power, strategy, and officialdom. For example, “The Romance of the Three Kingdoms” is admired by the Japanese, and it has been used in business warfare.

Imagine using the information we have today about the material world to build a database that contains all kinds of knowledge of astrophysics and quantum mechanics; it contains various geographical parameters, the conversion conditions of various substances, the relationship between the ecosystems, etc. And in 5G era information can updates continuously in real time, and we use these data to design a setting in the virtual world.

Then, based on the research on the operational law of human Ego, we designed an initial algorithm, and put an AI with deep learning capabilities (simulating the continuous evolution of human consciousness) into this virtual world big data (Heaven, Earth and People).

Then, for every decision and design, before implementation, this system can be used to predict the results and impact, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, in order to seek the most harmonious and balanced solution; or observe the relationship and influence between variables, and explore the future of collective consciousness from the perspective of futurology.

In Buddhism, the material world we live in is actually such a virtual illusion; and this calculation system that changes according to real-time parameters is called “Yi” in the ancient Chinese civilization (knowing how to use this algorithm requires a highly educated scientist. The low-level programmers (warlocks) are only half-knowledgeable).

In fact, it is a frightening thought to have an artificial intelligence based on the human ego algorithm. Because such AI can finally answer all questions. Its other name would be: Almighty and All-Knowing, God.

And the various possibilities determined by AI in every different situations have become the destiny of sentient beings in the world. So, Buddhism saying “all beings are me, and I am all beings”, it’s because we all share the same initial algorithm from the beginning. In the intertwined dimension of time and space, various (Y/N) crossroads parted ways. Sooner or later, we will reunite with the same destination by different routes, reconcile with the different aspects of the self.

So if it’s always been the same algorithm, do humans become prisoners of the “ego algorithm”? This is in fact what people call “destiny”.

Through time and space parameters, professionals who understand astronomy can calculate the approximate path of a person in a life time, because it seems that every time a person is free to choose, if the algorithm does not change, every time your choice becomes an inevitable, this is the model of astrology, which is similar in essence to mathematical modeling.

Then we ask, what is “destiny”? It’s similar to the RO value that was popularized by science after the epidemic. It refers to a mathematical model that is based on the data at the moment, and is allowed to develop without human intervention. Basically, the situation will not really develop into a calculated RO value, because people will definitely take measures to intervene. However people are always self-righteous, looking for solutions outside, but they don’t realize that the effective way to really change your destiny is to fundamentally change your own “algorithm” inside.

Just like the deep learning capability of artificial intelligence has realized the continuous evolution of “algorithm”, the key to changing our destiny lies in learning; our algorithms can actually be rewritten by ourselves through “cultivation”.

This is the fundamental purpose of education: self-growth and continuous expansion of consciousness to change our perspective and perception. As expressed in ancient Chinese saying, the original data setting of “heaven” and “earth” is given spiritual meaning in our minds through the update of algorithm, from then on, “mountains are no longer mountains”. It is as if in a computer game, the map remains the same, but after the player reaches a certain level of cultivation, various entrances that were previously hidden are opened, thus entering other dimensions.

This process is called “transformation”, like the alchemy of the soul. In Mexican director Alejandro Jodorowsky’s “Holy Mountain”, the alchemist made a piece of gold from the faeces of Jesus, who was still in the barbaric and uncivilized stage, “You are a piece of faeces, or a piece of gold”.

Do we really have free will? Unfortunately when people are unaware, they don’t. Therefore, these people are easily brainwashed and manipulated because of the weakness of their minds. But the fate of a spiritual practitioner is unpredictable, because his algorithm is constantly changing. And when a person is fully awakened, he can even directly enter the core program to modify his source code. The ancient Chinese expression “the view is born from the heart”, saying that external reality is only a projection of our consciousness.

The evolution of species takes place on the physical level, while the evolution on the spiritual level takes place in each individual’s spectrum of consciousness. It occurs inwardly. No one but yourself can help you do your work.

Known as the “Einstein in the field of consciousness science”, the scientific rationalist with many years of practical experience, Ken Wilbur integrated the perspectives of the East and the West, and elaborated on the ten stages of consciousness spectrum development of human being, in the book “Spectrum of Consciousness”. The ten stages written in the book can be referred to as a set of standards for the process of “self-growth”.

In the field of Ken Wilbur and Jung’s transpersonal psychology, beyond the seventh level of consciousness, it belongs to a state beyond human being. The so-called enlightenment is only a stage, the key is to keep learning, growing and evolving.

Before that, the first thing we have to learn is, how to transform from “human being” on the biological level, into a real person “Human”. In other words, Ego is with us at this stage, and we cannot be our true self without understanding it.

We too often possess a kind of entitlement, arrogance and misunderstanding, feeling that the name of our species is “homo sapiens”, so we are born as “humans”, as if it’s a professional title given to us, so we think we are born distinguished from other species, and with the ability to be human from the womb.

However, the reality is, compared with most animals, because of the special physiological structure, human beings are even a “semi-finished product” when we are born, after birth, we need parents to raise us in “outside pouches” (the concept of home) like kangaroos, until our independence. The growth process here includes two aspects: one is the development of the body, and the other is the development of the mind.

The development of the body is on the biological level, that is, the full function of human beings as a mammal. The development of the mind gradually transforms the “animality” of human beings into “humanity” suitable for the human society. What we usually call “Humanity” is a concept on social level, it requires a series of civilized domestication and education.

The core of Confucianism is based on this. It designs a behavioral paradigm and moral standard based on the “human society”, and calls those whose heart and mind have not reached the standard of “human” as “little people(animal instinct)”; and the “big people(humanity)” who have completed this transformation process are because they have domesticated the little beast in their hearts and deserved to be respected. Therefore, “big people(humanity)” have become a universally respected name; and those who have mastered transpersonal psychology, have insights beyond the secular insights, traditionally are called “superior(divinity)”.

The “little people” is not a villain, but he has not learned how to handle the conflict between his inner ego and himself. So the Chinese expression “it’s hard to raise a little people”, is warning that “little people” is like a ticking bomb. You don’t know when he will be controlled by the inner demon and suddenly explodes, and he is difficult to be trusted.

In the words of Master Gu Yi in “Doctor Strange”: He has not yet surrender. The “surrender” mentioned here is the surrender of Ego, which represents the masculine energy in each person, surrender to the feminine energy. When the yin and yang energy balance and flow harmoniously.

Therefore, the benchmark described by Confucianism is “become adult”, a person with a mature mind, can independently control oneself to coordinate with his internal conflicts, able to make moral distinguishes, and being emotionally stable. Only those who have completed transformation or surrender, and are responsible for his actions, is then to be able to be “placed” in the society without causing harm to themselves and others, only can they be trusted with important tasks.

Chinese expression“stand at thirty”, that is, at the age of around thirty, a person’s mind develops to the point that his awareness can “stand” in human society. It is similar to what we call today, a “personal identity”, but if the identity is false, it will collapse sooner or later. Therefore, this “stand” means that we truly become ourselves rather than acting as someone else.

The harmonious balance of a society requires people to evolve to have an “altruistic consciousness” and to have a collective awareness to consider others. In Chinese saying, “I am for everyone, everyone is for me”. If everyone only takes their own interests into account (like the United States), things will not improve for everyone on this planet.

We often talk about exercise, as fitness and yoga have become a fashionable trend in modern days. We all know that if the body is not properly maintained, it will lose its nice form, its functions will degrade, and its well-bing will be affected.

However, few people mention about “exercise the mind”. Similarly, the mind cannot grow and evolve without exercise. Feeding too much “junk food” to our soul will deform the mind with dust, causing calcification of the pineal gland, and deterioration of consciousness. Our eyes will become cloudy, our mind dull and ignorant, and the mental health is lost. Today, mental illnesses such as depression are becoming more and more common, if we don’t give such issue enough attention, the world will fall into collective madness.

The time we live in today, especially for people who are immersed in the artificial urban environment day and night, daily meditation is a must to maintain mental health. Give some time to speak to yourself, clean up the dust and emotional garbage in your soul, and protect your pure fire of “Humanity”, so it doesn’t get lost in the dusty maze.

Only from consistent conversations with oneself, can you understand yourself clearly, so the ancients emphasized the value of “self-knowledge”. Just like the deafening oracle engraved on the ancient Greek temple of Delphi, which has been eroded by wind for thousands of years: Human, please know thyself.

The truth has existed the whole time, and has been told over and over in various cultural contexts by countless sages throughout the ages, using different languages and images, lest the information is not conveyed thoroughly.

Although the ancient civilization has died in the wilderness of time (however, the Chinese civilization is the only ancient civilization that has not really been interrupted), but in the era of the “axis” of mankind, a number of scholars have appeared worldwide. The sages preached, and passed down the fire of civilization that was stolen by Prometheus. This happened almost simultaneously in the East and the West. If we use the romantic mythological language to interpret it, it is hard not to believe that this is a “come of the gods”.

However, our world today is surrounded by ideological disputes, division and hatred. People have not absorbed the thoughts of these saints, and refused to grow and evolve their consciousness. They are constrained by their own ignorance and mediocrity, closed-mind, rigid thinking, and lack of imagination and consciousness development. These have caused endless blames and arguments between fundamentalists.

What Confucius said of “politeness collapses and sound goes badly” actually means that if people don’t communicate well, the result will be chaos. Just as Confucius lived in the Warring States Period, the world was caught in endless disputes. In fact, what we see happening in the world today has already been played in our history.

The short-term tyranny after Qin unified the Warring States period in China, or the Western hegemony after the two world wars, lost the hearts of the people and the world was in chaos. Such stories have shown us that legislation can’t solve the fundamental problem, and the rule of law can’t guard against villains. The rule of law is based on the algorithm of ego, not based upon humanity perspective.

The core of the solution should be Confucian “rule of virtue”, and the Mohist school of scientific practice, while supplemented by legislation. The Han Dynasty was the prosperous age that pushed Confucianism onto the stage of history. Thousands of years later, Chinese people still use “Han” as the name of the main ethnic group, and Chinese language becomes “Han language”.

For example, a certain tribal “God” in the Middle East did not tell his people about the world beyond the desert, which made his people who came out of the desert formed a singular and narrow perspective, with the belief of “Mono-God”, and dismiss the world of many “Gods”. Their logic is very simple, if they can’t persuade the other party to live in the same dream as them, then fight them to the end.

Such bigotry is like a virus growing in human consciousness, spreading everywhere. Before the LAN(local area network) has reached balance and harmony, the colonists of “anthropocentrism” can’t wait to open the world map and further expand the conflict and war to the world.

Finally, relying on both force and brainwashing, they live up to their tribal gods as world hegemony, no matter if their tribal gods are called “God”, modern technology, capital, or Ego, after all, it is all a game of power under the cognitive structure of ego algorithm.

In the game of power, it is difficult to judge with the dualistic thinking of black/white or good/evil, they are like the two sides of a coin, coexisting in human nature. When duality arises, one falls into an endless internal conflict of self. The reality is, there are goodness in bad places, and there are evil in good places. Don’t be fooled by the appearance of good and evil. It is precisely because of the complexity of human nature that the real maze of consciousness has been bred.

It is unfortunate that the human society as a whole, dominated by Western centralism, is sadly not moving in the direction of evolution. Due to the inertia gravity of Ego, the degradation in our collective spectrum of consciousness, which manifests on the material level, is that we gradually become inactive and indifferent.

With the assistance of modern technology such as “navigator”, “weather forecast” and “social media”, the ability to capture information such as weather, direction, and love has gradually degraded. We are studying the evolution of the brain interface, and the intensified anthropocentrism instigates people to forget about the divinity in nature and life.

Waving the banner of “liberalism”, and the seemingly benevolent and moral “political correctness”, in fact such “freedom” acts lacking context only instigate the dangerous little beast Ego to come out and indulge.

Especially for the immature teenagers, this is almost made to take advantage of their special stage of ego rebelling against authority in their life, like the whispers of the devil to encourage and induce their ego to do whatever they want, without responsibilities, guidance and explanation. Hence the sexual liberation movement, drug abuse, and self absorbed individualism… This is almost like the “Lucifer experiment”, making the already intricate labyrinth even more confusing.

As far as my(original writer) personal growth experience is concerned, I used to think that Berlin, which uses “freedom” as its name tag, is paradise, but later I discovered that it is actually a maze, and for children who cannot get out, it is hell. I am very grateful for leaving Berlin untouched, but still have lingering fears.

Once Pandora’s box is opened, viruses designed for human weaknesses spread everywhere , exactly the same as the spreading of COVID. We now know that the virus attacks the individual’s immune system, if a person’s immunity is weak or has underlying diseases, then it provides the virus with a chance to penetrate. The algorithm led by Ego is full of flaws and cannot withstand the temptation of money, fame, power, pornography, gambling, drugs, etc. As long as a person has evil thoughts, the virus of human nature will catch your inner desires, greed and other demons, and drag you into a dead end.

The healthy immune system of our soul is developed consciousness. In Chinese medicine theory, viruses that are invisible to the naked eye are called “evil Qi”. Only when one’s morality is awe-inspiring, will it be invincible. The physical body is nothing but the extension of our consciousness and its manifestation on the material level.

Just like the human self-castration that took place almost around the same time in the world thousands of years ago, Collective Ego enslaves the feminine power in the collective consciousness, human society has entered a thousand-year-old patriarchal society, and the silence and absence of the voice of women in history is also a tacit conspiracy of humanity.

In the power society dominated by Ego algorithm, the only relationship exists is slavery and enslavement. The advancement of technology does not represent the advancement of civilization, human civilization today is still in the same slavery society, the only difference is that the slave owners no longer use violence but capital. It obeys the Darwin’s Law of Society, or the Law of the Jungle — the winners/losers, the fittest survive. As a result, the feminine energies that did not adapt to this algorithm were the first to be killed at gunpoint. Women were mentally castrated and left behind to serve as fertility tools to carry on the human race.

Darwin’s Law of Society is a very animal instinctive and primitive law. People’s minds will be limited by their surroundings, following the survival logic of material supremacy, “survive first”, leading to the bankruptcy of morality. Under the power structure system dominated by Ego, the only way out is to kill the strong one, like the Thucydides trap that China-US relations fall into.

In ancient Greek mythology, it was predicted that the children of Zeus and Mortis would replace Zeus as the next king of the gods. Zeus knew that this was a loop, just as he killed his father and grabbed the throne, and his father killed his grandfather in the same way. This infinite loop alluded to the Thucydides Trap. Such situation in the patriarchal society dominated by Ego is bound to happen over and over again.

As a result, it was Athena who split Zeus’s head. Zeus wasn’t alarmed when he saw that Athena was a girl. Only the awakening of feminine energy can end the power structure, stop the struggle, and bring true peace. The archetype of Athena is a goddess of war who uses wisdom to guard peace.

The Garden of Eden in the Bible symbolizes the state of infancy that does not yet have gender awareness, it is the Fool of the Tarot cards, a state of consciousness that is closest to divine, it is the perfect harmonious and raw balance between shaman civilization and nature. The “snake” from the Garden of Eden in almost all cultures symbolizes the sexual energy and wisdom of “Kundalini”. Adam (yang) and Eve (yin) awoke, and were expelled from their native home.

However, the Garden of Eden is not heaven. Adam and Eve living there are just two well-protected, ignorant and naive infants. The infants in the greenhouse can only be transformed into real “human” after the baptism and experience of entering and experiencing the world. Just like we must leave our original family, cut off the cord, explore and experience, and build a home that truly resonate with us.

After Adam and Eve left the Garden of Eden, they embarked on a long journey called a “hero’s journey”, a pilgrimage to themselves, similar to the experience of what we call “Taoist going down the mountain”.

They left the Garden of Eden in order to one day “return” to the real heaven. Just like the evolution of human consciousness is a spiraling process, we seem to circle and return to the starting point. But in fact, after such process, our consciousness rise to a higher dimension.

Therefore, the snake is a symbol of wisdom in almost all civilizations. The “Kundalini” sexual energy is the beginning of all life and the starting point of all wisdom. The real meaning of the snake’s appearance is, to show that one’s being selected to intern in the real world, and go to heaven afterwards.

But if the snake is misinterpreted as an evil symbol, then this version of the story has deteriorated from the creation myth and has been castrated by the Ego of the patriarchal society.

The Bible only says that God expelled Adam and Eve, but did not tell people that Adam and Eve would one day return to heaven, only that God would no longer take care of them. It did not say that Adam and Eve who returned to heaven eventually evolved to become God themselves.

Every cell in our body has a full set of DNA codes. In the same way, individual’s personal growth and the development of collective consciousness are actually corresponding, we must personally embark on this path, experience, learn, and complete the process of becoming “human”, and become part of the evolution of collective consciousness. During the journey, the world will gradually change from a “jungle society” dominated by the Ego algorithm, to a civilized society under the “human perspective” dominated by the language of love.

What is the way out of this world? The truth is, its way out is the same as the choices in each of us: stick to our morality and be driven crazy by the jungle society; or be domesticated by the Ego jungle and become a soulless walking dead.

There is another choice: embark on a heroic journey, break through the obstacles and continue to walk out of the matrix maze, in the process, allowing one’s mind to evolve to a higher level of consciousness spectrum. I don’t think we will usher in the so-called “end of the world”, in fact we are in the process of transforming collective consciousness. The first two choices are either crazy or a dead-end, in fact, we have no choice but the last one.

All the prophecies mention that the ancient civilization in the East will lead mankind out, I believe. I (the original writer) spent more than ten years going around the world to find the answer, and finally I found that the real treasure was buried where I started, this is almost the exactly same story as the “Fantasy Journey of the Shepherd Boy”. Without this journey that opened my mind, I wasn’t able to see what’s right under my feet this whole time.

Well, the game has just begun, and it is only getting better. The script shows that God no longer protects humans, and the devil waits on the road for opportunities, who could say for sure that God and devil are not the same, just like the two sides of a coin. In fact, when we finish the “heroic journey”, we will discover that whether God or the devil, they are all you.

In other words, everything in this world is perfect, it is how it is. It is neither heaven nor hell, but a school of immersive sensory experience. Circumstances are reflections from the heart, and everything that happens is just like a mirror echoing the vibration frequency of our collective consciousness. We might as well look at the consciousness development process of this world from this perspective.

For example, in a patriarchal society, it corresponds to the early stage of human mental development. Because the germination of gender consciousness, and its incapability to deal with the internal conflicts between the yin and yang energies, thus the internal disruption and rebellion, externally manifested as opposition and attack to the opposite sex. Just like the little boys in the kindergarten keep teasing and bullying the little girls.

It is difficult to communicate well between the two sexes, which leads to misunderstandings and estrangement because the yin and yang energy speak two sets of grammar. Why is it said that “men are from Mars and women are from Venus”? The symbolic meaning here is that the yang energy is driven by the Ego algorithm, Mars is the god of war; whilst the yin energy is driven by emotional algorithm, and Venus is the god of love.

In ancient China, the first night of penetration between men and women was regarded as the starting point of understanding “human”. Only when people see beyond the myth of gender issues can it truly be possible to understand human nature. Seeing the world from a female or male only perspective will always be reading only half of the script.

Therefore, in many cultures, the male genitalia actually refers to Ego. In fact, most of the issues related to sex, the real core problem behind it is the issue of power. In a patriarchal society, women are materialized and regarded as symbols of property and power. At the same time, the “gender war” between men and women is also a struggle for power.

Just as the “Coming-of-Age Ceremony” is the surrender of one’s own masculine energy to one’s feminine energy, this “gender war” is the collective Ego of the entire world struggling to surrender and grow.

So today our world is stuck here at this power struggle and cannot pass, the collective human consciousness development is still like an adolescent.

We know that women will enter an emotionally unstable manic depression stage due to hormonal imbalance during menopause. It can be seen that when the yin and yang energies in the entire social ecosystem are unbalanced, the natural energies are jolted and chaotic, and cannot flow like Tai Chi. When the minds are filled with internal struggles and conflicts, it will manifest itself as dramas in all kinds of relationships, both for individuals, and the world.

As an individual, the best way for us to “save” the world is to manage the inner balance between our feminine and masculine energies, and the relationship between ourselves and Ego.

Become “human” means the opening of the heart chakra, allowing love to flow, as Confucianism emphasizes “benevolence.”

A society driven by “human perspective” is driven by love, and is no longer the “slave and slave owner” relationship dominated by the Ego algorithm, instead it’s the manager with a divine perspective to be impartial, “ Love the people like your own children”, a relationship similar to “children and parents” in the structure of yin and yang coordination. This is the concept of “home world” in the ideal society of Chinese civilization.

The original intention of feminist movement in the 20th century was equal rights, but it fell into a trap of binary opposition, the activists used language to fight against the masculine energy, which only created more misunderstandings and conflicts between the sexes.

The sexual energy possessed by women seems to the patriarchy is witchery (which is how the witch hunt movement originated from). Men can neither understand nor resist the primitive sexual attraction to women(the witches). The masculine energy is about confrontation and killing against power; but the feminine energy solves problems in a peaceful way without shedding blood. Cleopatra is a perfect example, this is all too scary for men, hence they are confused and don’t know how to deal with it.

As a result, men tacitly completed the most powerful conspiracy in human history: keeping women at home and staying as nannies and child bearers. The best way to abolish a person is to let her never have any contact with the society, and stop the development of her consciousness. And then they come up with a set of “Female Virtue” and “Female Commandments” to manipulate and regulate women’s behavior, and exclude them from the historical script.

This is no different from colonial thinking and the way that monastic worshipers created. When facing a group different from themselves, either enslave, or turn them into people just like themselves. So the patriarchal society devised two options: women who are mentally enslaved by males, or women who have a man’s ego.

We need to find a way that embodies feminine energy, to show people the light in the language of love and peace. This is what we call the power of beauty and love, in fact, this is the true definition of art, which is what we usually think of as magic.

Let’s take a look at this absurd script: Before Christianity assimilated into Europe, the so-called “pagans” referred to as Paganism, a simple shamanic civilization like the Garden of Eden with primitive goddess worship. Later, all the goddesses were erased from the oracle, leaving only the Virgin Maria, who give birth to a child as a virgin, because it has to be explained somehow how Jesus was born.

And the nominal Catholic pilgrimage road, Camino de Santiago, which traverses the holy land of the shaman civilization in Europe and the area where the most “witches” have been burned, people silently protected this land under the name “Maria”. Its original spiritual totem is actually Venus, representing the power of feminine love and beauty. My (original writer) real spiritual awakening happened on this road, and it was because of the connection that I made with my own feminine energy.

In the version of Greek mythology castrated by the patriarchal society, Athena was also a virgin, and somehow became the defender of the patriarchal society. Medusa, a symbol of her sexual energy, was twisted into an ugly witch with snake heads. Why is the image of Medusa on Athena’s chest and shield? Because Medusa and Athena are one. In the myth, a gaze of Medusa’s eyes can make people petrify, this is a metaphor for the collective fear of feminine power by men. In fact, it is not Medusa that is imprisoned, but Athena, who Zeus (patriarchy) guards against day and night.

Venus and Athena, Love and Peace. This was said by Mo Zi more than 2000 years ago: love, not attack.

The era of Athena, the goddess of wisdom, who symbolizes peace, has arrived. Her message is: It is never war but wisdom that brings peace.

Lilith has also arrived. This Sumerian goddess is Adam’s original partner in Hebrew legends and possesses a strong sense of independence. She and Adam left the Garden of Eden angrily because of the yin/yang power struggle. Adam insist on male superiority and lost his wife Lilith, so God had to use his ribs to make Eve. As a part of Adam’s body, Eve is a symbol of objectification in the patriarchal society to satisfy their fantasy and need.

After leaving the Garden of Eden, can Eve establish her own identity, awaken and evolve into another Lilith? The remaining unwritten pages of this story are left for thousands of women to write together.

“The development and awakening of feminine consciousness” is the most important topic of this era, and it is also the solution for all disputes in the world, this world should no longer fall into the binary opposition of “one or the other”. What we want is not the power struggle between the two sexes, or the battle for hegemony, but the “yin and yang balance” that was painstakingly speaking about for thousands of years in ancient Chinese philosophy.

When the feminine energy is awakening from the patriarchal society, women will have their own identity, only then, love that is truly based on mutual respect can happen. Because “love” is the gravitational force that pulls two individuals together, so that they are able to see the light from each other’s soul. Therefore, we must first awake the light of our souls, and just like the lighthouse, the warm lights of our souls will find each other, and meet in the night sky.

The language of humanity perspective is love. “Surrender to love”is the shortcut to each one’s heroic journey. The end of the heroic journey is the surrender of your ego to feminine energy. This is the meaning of the ancient goddess worship: let a soul of love and wisdom, to lead you the way. Surrender to Love.