h2>Dating : How to Get Him to Kiss You
Linger. Men aren’t stupid.
They know there is a certain point at the end of a date where a specific action is almost expected.
If up to now he hasn’t made a move, you either haven’t given him enough interest cues or he isn’t interested.
Linger at the end of the date and see where it takes you.
He will know what you are waiting for to fill up that awkward space. He will either go for it, or he won’t.
Decrease the distance required to kiss you. Start with the “hug and hold” technique as suggested by Cosmopolitan magazine.
This is exactly what it sounds like and is much like the linger move.
When you decrease the amount of physical distance between you, it takes the pressure off of him if he is going to make the move.
If it’s a first date, just say, “I’m a hugger!” and then give him a hug at the end of the date.
But hold for a minute or two, just to look in his eyes and let him know you had a great time. He’ll know what you want.
Ask him when he’s going to kiss you. If it’s been a few dates, then you know he is interested, or he wouldn’t be here with you.
If he has still not made the move, he’s probably the shy guy. Just ask him, “So, when are you going to kiss me?”
It goes back to that confidence factor men love with women.
It will show him that you are interested, and if he’s interested, he will probably laugh it off with relief and make his move.
If he doesn’t, then you know where you stand and can stop waiting for this guy to take the next step.
The Bottom Line
When it comes to kissing, he wants to go for it as much as you want him to, but he’s not going to take that step if there is any risk of rejection or humiliation.
You can make his job so much easier by setting the right tone that gives him nothing but green lights to go for it.
And, if you’ve set the scene just right and he still hasn’t gone for it, chances are unfortunately, he may just not want to.
If that’s the case, don’t push the situation yourself, or you will be the one winding up feeling rejected and humiliated.
Know your man and set the cues, and you should have no problem getting him to take your dating life to the next level.
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