h2>Dating : How to Win the Respect of Quality Women
Today, I want to address the question a lot of guys are afraid to ask, & that that’s how they (men) can get respect & love from women. But before I answer you, I have to point out two sides of the equation.
1) Are you a quality man who deserves respect?
2) Does a woman deserve your time, money, & attention? (coming article)
First, what is the prerequisite for respect?
Dignity was one of the first words taught to me in Chinese (尊严). Dignity means a sense of pride in oneself, self-respect, & the state or quality of being worthy of honour or respect. It’s also synonymous with nobility, royalty, & grandeur.
In order to earn respect from others, one has to gain self-respect. In order to gain self-respect & a sense of oneself, one has to experience struggle, overcoming, & victory through task or conflict. And in order to be noble, royal, & grand, one requires hard work, skills, & knowledge in many facets of Human Relations.
Respect is earned from having the skill, values, resources, education, culture, mental, physical, & soulful qualities that elevate & connect you with the audience.
One personal example of dignity would be that I never lower myself to anybody’s position or status, even if they were by my own standards, better. I see myself (& my close ones) as the centre of the universe, & other people serve only as the lessons & example for my own actualization.
“No one respects a fanboy, or fangirl, but everyone respects the celebrity. I learn from the best but admire fuckin’ nobody.” — Xan He
I am first & foremost the master of own mind, life, & admiration. How could you not have respect for yourself, if you create your own world & put yourself (& your loved ones) first?
Another example would be, I never chase a woman, particularly one who was lazy, rude, selfish, uncaring, insensitive, materialistic, promiscuous, & calculating (e.g. feminist). I used to say, “you’re free to cancel, disregard, disrespect, delay, or ignore me, & you’re free to my door.”
Respect for oneself is not tolerating the abuse of low quality people.
This means I don’t romantically interact with women of low morals, no conscience, little heart, & insufficient intelligence. Even as a boy, I always differentiated myself by not looking, chasing, or butler-ing girls like other boys or men of today. I am not a dog; instinctively, I demanded equal attention. Why?
Because I have the means (identity) deserving of respect. My offer is quality of mind, body, & soul — which minimizes a woman’s risk amidst a world full of abusers, rapists, drunks, drug-users, unromantic & irresponsible men.
A high quality man is to the value-driven woman, superior care, play, loyalty, sensuality, protection, confidence, compassion, & intelligence; effectively giving her the complete qualities she needs from a man, which is the Trifecta of Arousal for Women — cognitive, affective, & physical arousal.
An intelligent women knows that a moral, quality, & Universal Man™ minimizes the her risk of being hurt, abused, left behind, or unprotected in life by her partner. So the distinction must be made clear: We are a class above. We must believe & execute high class & high morals to achieve high appreciation.
Where the common man struggle, the Universal Man™ achieves.
See, before I even speak, I have already won the battle by highlighting the qualities I inherited or worked to acquire in education, personality, courage, hair, skin, teeth, humour, muscles, genetics, fashion, manners, linguistic poetry, & psychology to rise above the competition, which by today’s standards, are substantially low compared to the Renaissance.
So when I speak, I can attract who I want, when I want, where I want. Why wouldn’t you ask for respect, affection, admiration, the loyal & total attention of the woman when you can create & offer an atmosphere of safety & satisfaction? Why wouldn’t you be the dream a decent woman wants?
If you’re a quality man, it’s perfectly normal to have an expectation & define a standard of woman you accept.
The next step is to define what type of woman are worth your while, & even more grand, to find one who can develop into the woman you both wish for. ***Subscribe for coming articles.
So, this hard earned self-worth, self-respect, respect, & etiquette towards women, & most of all Dignity, is what gets your respect from women. The only question is whether you have to educate her on the values of these qualities, or if she is educated & observant enough to value you as the Universal Man™.
In the coming articles, I will share with you how you can carve a world & market of your own by becoming the Universal Man™, an identity concept I created to help men achieve a world of excellence. Would you like to be a class above? Comment below.
