Dating : Is she interested?

How can you tell if a girl is interested in you after the FIRST conversation?

This is a very tricky topic but I can narrow it down to 3 points that will help you with your judgement after the first conversation.

1. First I’ll talk about the zone where it’s a clear “no”. You ask her a question and she gives you a very short answer. This means she’s not interested in you at all. And she’s making conversation because someone else probably asked her to reply to you but she herself doesn’t care or is in no mood. For example if you ask her, “where do you live?” And she says “Bhubaneswar”, that means she doesn’t want to talk to you. She doesn’t want to make conversation and hence isn’t giving you a chance to talk by asking you a question.
2. Second zone is the “maybe” zone. It means you have a chance and if you are able to ignite a spark or impress her, there is a good chance things will head forward. If you ask her a question and she asks you the same question back, this means it’s like 50–50. She hasn’t completely cancelled out the idea of being friends with you, but she might change her mind. And there wouldn’t necessarily be a solid reason as to why she changed her mind. But usually it happens if the conversation is boring. But the tricky part is, she isn’t going to try to make the conversation interesting from her side, so it’s all on you. You’ll have to try to win her over and if you have, the conversations ahead will be smoother. Then there’s other reasons she asking you the same questions back. Maybe she’s being super polite because you’re a friend of a friend but she isn’t actually interested. But most of the time, if she does ask you about yourself, that means there’s a comparitively higher chance than the previous zone when you are completely cancelled out.
3. Then there’s the third zone. Which is a “yes ». You can be sure she’s interested to know about you if she asks you questions that are different to the questions you asked her. If she repeats your question, it’s the “maybe” zone. If it’s an original question, it’s a yes. She is open to the idea if getting to know you. But if you don’t grab the opportunity and impress her, she can just as easily change her mind. On the bright side, you stand a higher chance than most other people she talks to.

So that is how you can tell if a girl is interested after the first conversation. I repeat, FIRST conversation. And these are things that no one can have a definite say on. You can’t really generalise how all girls text since every individual functions differently. Some people are super polite but not interested and you might get mixed signals there and assume the wrong thing.

But coming from a person who isn’t unnecessarily rude, but isn’t polite to the point she gives mixed signals, this is as accurate as it gets.

Hope this helped!