h2>Dating : My Narcissistic Crush
ˈnɑːsɪsɪz(ə)m, — extremely self-centered with an exaggerated sense of self-importance : marked by or characteristic of excessive admiration of or infatuation with oneself. Actually narcissism is like a mental disorder, but that’s not the point.
So a while back, i started going to this Café somewhere in Lekki Phase 1. Really cool, super fast WiFi and great ambience. Also, i’m not obliged to buy milo all in the name of “hot chocolate”. Operation Save Them Coins.
In two months, i had become a regular at the café. There’s a guy i met on one of my reading sessions. Weird guy, he was. Still is. Fast forward to when we got talking and i have never EVER in my entire life met a narcissist like this one.
It’s worthy to note that he shares the name with one of my favorite artistes. Disclaimer : Not Nigerian. — Your artistes are trash.
Late twenties, great job, mad ass car, lives in Lekki, cutie and super obsessed with success and wealth.
Wollup;
I’m sure you’re wondering what the clause is..
I understand that a guy with a zest for success is the sexiest thing in the whole fucking world. Someone with a goal and a focus and actually drives to achieve these goals. A hard worker. What girl on earth doesn’t want that? But the problem is, he only cares about HiMsElF and i cannot deal. So i asked him a question one day — “Do you think you can ever be committed to a woman like you are with your job”
He answered with a simple “I gave some girl my attention and lost out on a 160k USD Stanford Scholarship. Not happening again” with some laugh-crying emoji. Plus a link to this article
“Watching football is Junk activity… I only indulge in stuff that impacts knowledge and brings me money”
Sigh..
I love attention. I need it. It is literally my food. I like this person, but why would i want to be with someone that would talk about himself the whole car ride, or turn up the volume to “his” own playlist? Wanting success is amazing, but i also want to play and indulge in “Junk activity”.
Relationship not Stock exchange Market plis dear.
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