Dating : “Old fashioned ways the Introduction”

“Old fashioned ways the Introduction”

I’ll meet you at 6pm we can get an old fashion and finally meet in person. Not knowing at the time the type of attraction this could be other than the typical tinder date of meeting conversing and losing attraction. She’s new in Miami from San Francisco area where she grew up but took a risk to move to south florida to follow her dreams. We meet at Better Days a bar in downtown Miami for a drink as she’s there already looking better in person with seeing her personality and smile in action. She’s wearing heels and at my neck and I’m 6’6” in height. But let me take you back to the swipe match.

The swipe I recall seeing her a very gorgeous woman and fit from her photos and in her bio her Instagram handle. Initially that was a red flag for me. I thought she was a woman here looking for attention and followers with no substance that I dive deep into, but I swipe right anyways.

We match the initial conversation we introduce ourselves with conversations starters of complimenting each other And typical back stories of one another. I didn’t open up to dive deeper in the conversations of not expecting her to be much more than just a very gorgeous woman that wouldn’t understand me.

A week later she reach back out to me I was intrigued by her effort, I felt a sincerity of her actions to reach out again after I was being so nonchalant. It turned me on in a way to open up about the emotional attraction I’m looking for to see if she could handle it in a proper response for me to dive deeper and give a layer of myself.

It went from me peeling back a layer of myself, and seeing that the beautiful woman was much deeper than I imagine. I think my intuition felt that with the effort with her reaching out again of showing interest and not just for attention to past time by. We chatted about philosophy, self help, business related books l felt so attracted to her with the stimulating conversations we had. But still not sure of what this attraction might be I wasn’t quick to meet up, the younger version of myself would of been quick to. The first attempt to hangout out with her was for coffee during the day but not sure how sincere she was I did my errands for the Sunday we was going to meet up and lost track of time and didn’t reach out to meet. We casually talk more though text messages and reschedule for another day. Not sure if she was just saying things to get on my good side see sent a pick of herself drinking wine. I enjoyed the subtle flirting by her within the picture I seem a stack of books on a bookshelf it was books on stoic philosophy, and other philosophical modern and past views. Within knowing her she introduce me more to stoicism language, and Tim Ferriss a popular American author. Which I can tell by the joy in face and tone that that’s one of favorite authors of all time she had a backstory about the guy which later learn relating to Robert Green a popular author that written books such as “48 Laws of Power”, “The Art of Seduction”, and other great books.

….she stands up looking gorgeous, she already ordered two old fashions for the both of us. We hug and I take a sip of my old fashioned cocktail very impress by her beauty even more. Tinder can be very deceiving with looks and appearance. It was pleasing to see she was more than just gorgeous to me. As we sat the conversation went well we had so much in common I felt at peace with talking to her about myself without trying to impress her but for her to understand me. It’s the hardest thing to do at times in this time of dating of trying to hold someone attention and attraction but being truthful about life. After a drink and eating popcorn from “Better Days” we decide to go get food somewhere since “better days” wasn’t serving food. I took care the drink tab and then got a uber we went to “Seaspice” but needed reservation, seem like a rookie mistake not to be prepared on second part of the date if things went well to have a plan but everything went accordingly it felt no pressure to impress but just taking in the company and conversation we were sharing. We ended up walking to an Italian restaurant call “Crust” we shared a entree from the Miami spice option and a wine . Where I found out that some of the unpopular R&B music I listen to such as Jorja Smith, Masego, SiR, and Joji we appreciated. From the knowing of that I look behind my shoulder to see if this was a joke of someone setting me up as a prank. From there we kept the night going and ended up “Sugar” at the east hotel for another old fashioned cocktail. Although observing her I felt the connection but wasn’t sure about sexual chemistry until the end of the night while we got uber to go our separate ways. I could tell by the way she was looking at me that she wanted to kiss me but waited til her uber came and we kissed the whiskey off our breath and tongue… to be continued!