Dating : I was told that my girlfriend cheated on me
Today a family member told me that one of my gfs friends (he will not say who) told him that she cheated on me. Apparently she didn’t come to me because she doesn’t want to ruin her friendship with my gf. I’ve suspected cheating one time before and talked to my gf about it and she denied it so we moved on. How should I move forward with this?
Well this comes down to your how well you trust your friend’s information.
Personally for me I’ve been cheated on too many times. Its unacceptable and it not worth the heart heart of trying to mend the relationship back together because trust is one of the major factors is a relationship
You know the saying…
Once a cheater, always a cheater..
If you suspected her of doing it once, don’t be surprised if she does it again.
Now… The thing is one of your girlfriends friends mentioned this to you, do you trust this information/person?
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Rumors are just rumors, but if there is some merit or possibility to it, then you must have a conversation with her one on one.
If she tries to act like she has no clue, or defend herself by attacking you, or deflecting questions, then she has something to hide.
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My rule of thumb in any dating scenario is this..
I’ve been cheated on 3 times with 3 different girls. Only once did I get back with the cheater, and she became one of the most faithful women I have ever met. Unfortunately, and obviously I could never get past the jealously, and the irrational trust that probably couldn’t ever been mended. She was extremely faithful, but deep down, I could never be 100% happy around her.
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Once she cheats, she’s done. It’s a wrap. No going back, and if you do, she or you will never have any self respect whatsoever.
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It’s hearsay, possibly unreliable, but it should not be dismissed. Begin a detailed investigation to uncover the truth.