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Dating : Taking a break in a relationship

h2>Dating : Taking a break in a relationship

Tosin Popoola

Long Term Relationships are very difficult to sustain. After some time, appears a lot of misunderstandings, arguments and problems, which are inevitable because, that’s life. There are couples who know how to get over these problems and their relationship blossoms, but many of them fail. There are also other reasons why couples break down as a result of love, they don’t understand anymore or either of them is bored in this relationship. So, what happens if a partner says they still love you but she needs a break?

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Difference between a break and a breakup

A break is a temporary situation of the relationship while a breakup is more permanent, except both parties could really work things out.

Steps to take if your partner asks for a break

Let’s say, your partner of just over two years, told you that they needed a break; claiming to still love you and want you to be together some day, but right now he needed space, a break, in order to settle their mind. What should you do?

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Firstly, try and ask for his reason, does he like someone else? He may not be truthful about it, but let him know that he risk losing you forever by taking this break. if he really cares about you, he should be a little worried and think over his actions. You should also confront him and tell him you feel trapped too and considering the break, even though that is not what you want.

If a guy asks for a break in a relationship, you have to give it to him that; if he loves you as he claimed, he will come back. Don’t try to contact him, give him the time he needs.Do not be too desperately to get him back. Leave him alone and be busy with something.

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There are so many reasons why a guy may request for a break in a relationship; you may not have lived up to his standard, or he may be making new friends, venturing into other spheres of life, enjoying his single life, having second thought about the whole relationship and he is outgrowing you, or you just does not fit into his life right now.

Another reason why he may want a break is, if he’s not quite ready to let you go but, he want to meet other girls, without resorting to cheating on you, or he just met a new girl that he likes, but he’s not sure if he want to stay with her or you.

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What happens if he still calls you, but he doesn’t tell you to get back together?

The best you can do is to show him that you are fine without him, even if your heart is broken; when a guy feels unwanted, then,they are ready to do anything in order to be wanted again; so if he doesn’t come running back, it means that he doesn’t care that much.

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You should wait a little, but not too much before you start seeing other people too. You have to start letting go of your feelings for him and meet other people,because it is no more considered cheating. It is the only way for you to move on with your life and if by any chance, the two of you got back together someday, it will be on your terms. So, go out with your own friends and have some fun.

When people decides to take a break, what they are really doing is taking time to see if there is somebody more suited for them out there. So you must know if your partner care about you as much as you care about them.

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