Dating : We might not be a Good Pair of Lover

… because going through a difficult, trying time makes one or both of you realize that this isn’t the person you want for tough times. We fall in love because we share similar values, wanted similar things (for the most part), there are so many love and peace we found when we were in love but an accident in life can change one’s perception about LOVE & relationship.

Because when time is moving, we keep moving without having much thoughts to think about anything this much or make any life-twisted decision. We would prefer to just stay at wherever we are and bet on timing as if “Time will tell”. But, the truth is finally when the time is at pause, those inner voices raise from our heart are god damn loud ~

If your love is a case I can’t be helped

Going to your waist I am under a spell

Hold me til it hurts

I close my eyes

Running in your ways

And save your mind

I will never let you slip away

From my hands, from my hands

Like I mean a dream when I am awake

Calling your name, calling your name

A big part of me in life playing a role of being a realist that most of the time I am very concern about what consequences I have to take in any situation and will not ever go out of my circumstances to sacrifice. To protect myself.

But when it comes to relationship, it seems like I am half a realist, I am more likely a hopeless romantic. I believe in soulmate. The best relationship partners are an invitation to our soul’s evolution.

Someone can be so extraordinarily nice and hold solidarity in their attitudes but when it comes to love, it reminds you attitude is not everything. Attitude is important as it somehow connected to how we are going to deal with our life and whether this person can be trust-able in the long run. A person with a good attitude might just be one of your good friends.

Reason ?

Because we are falling into it. It is like a beautiful accident. No one expects this to happen but the way we talk, the way we smile, the way we fight, the way we cry, the way we apologies, the way we dream and laugh when we fail are what make us a good pair of lover.

We are connected ! It makes sense ! It’s worthwhile ! It’s motivated !

A genuine love will make each other grow and shine even when we are apart of each other. This is the love that my heart is calling for.

Our soulmates bring up our stuff… Why? Because they are our soul’s….mate. They are here to call us on our shit and be the gift to our evolution and spiritual development.⁠
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A lot of people choose to not answer this call. They run from the thought of their heart opening and letting someone in who just might see them for who they really are. They might actually love us underneath the fraud that we claim to be.⁠
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Our greatest fears become realized with these people… Because we can no longer hide and play small. They push us to dream and love. They call us out on not communicating and shine light on where we need to grow. These people are the ones we are all searching for… Yet some of us choose safe. We yell at the top of our lungs what we want… And when it shows up we get scared.⁠
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I know. I’ve been scared. I’ve hidden from the dreams. I’m here to tell you it’s normal to be scared. That’s a good sign that you’re on the right track. Your heart and soul already know your journey.

We just have to listen and walk the path.