Dating : Women On Tinder Suck. Let Me Explain Why

Yes, women of Tinder you suck.

They use to say the easiest way to meet someone new was by putting yourself out there.

Now, thanks to the digital era and applications such as Tinder “putting yourself out there” is now as easy as creating an online profile and uploading a picture.

Now, as a man using the platform I have been on countless dates. All of which amounted to nothing meaningful and what I came to realize is that Tinder is not the problem.

It’s the kind of women Tinder attracts which has attributed to my low success rate using the app to meet and date women. This article is all about why women on Tinder suck.

I have a few reasons why women on this app suck and I will caution everyone by first mentioning that of course, this does not apply to every woman on Tinder.

However, a vast majority of women using the app are self-absorbed, selfish, anxiety-filled bitches from hell. Let me explain why

First, for those who are new or unfamiliar with Tinder. Understand Tinder is like playing the real-life version of the famous show Game of Thrones with the added convenience of everything being at the palm of your hands.

So, after you’ve been matched up with a woman on Tinder, generally it is the guy’s responsibility to make the first move.

Similar to real-life where the male will make the first approach towards a woman he finds interesting.

You would think this approach would be easier considering it’s online

But, on Tinder, some (all) women act like they are above the decency of a normal human being and will often not even respond to your message if it is not saying something that might catch their attention immediately.

You see women on Tinder have cultivated a false sense of reality. Their heads have been pumped up so much and they’ve received so many dopamine hits from the hundreds of swipes they’ve gotten that it has led them to lose touch with reality and fail to realize who they actually are.

It’s amazing what a filter and makeup can do for some of these women and us men buy it every single time…. Until we meet them face to face.

Maybe it’s me, maybe it’s not. But, I find it pretty hard to start a decent interesting conversation with a person who’s bio says nothing more than, “Follow me on Snapchat @blahblah” or “I love myself some chocolate men….”.

Tinder women severely lack conversational skills at an all-time max. They often respond back with messages like, “yeah”, “sounds cool”, and “Oh really”. And I’m just staring back at this shit on my iPhone screen asking myself, “Is this a mutha fucking bot”?

But, low and behold an actual human is behind the screen as well.

On a serious note, what am I supposed to say back to that? I suppose I could be funny and say, “Who wouldn’t love some dark dick” or something weird to that effect. But, the overall problem is that women on Tinder aren’t giving men much to go off on as far as conversation goes initially.

And you might ask. Well, why don’t you just compliment them on their looks?

Let me tell you, these women are matching up with men all day every day. Women get twice as many swipes as men on Tinder. They are consistently being told they are beautiful, gorgeous, hot, and their dumb asses still don’t believe it.

Women who use Tinder have self-esteem issues to the max. Nothing you say, do, try to do will change the fact that they don’t believe in themselves.

I would say at least half or maybe even over half of the women I’ve matched up with were a wasted match because they didn’t even respond to the first message sent.

Having said all that, let’s get to the juicy part.

So, let’s just say we got lucky with one of these women and they responded to the first move made. We might get a nice dialogue going talking about life and mundane things that nobody gives a shit about.

But hey, Something’s better than nothing right? Wrong

There was this one girl I talked to for a few weeks and we had worked our ways up into considering a relationship. Boy, let me tell you. Crazy and insecure does not discriminate.

Keep in mind the woman was absolutely beautiful. But, she was selfish, controlling, needy, and most of all insecure

So, #1 the bitch wanted to keep tabs on me like I had just proposed and gave her a ring. I mean I couldn’t even shit without the sight or thought of her ass creeping into the back of my mind. It was like my life was playing out as a real-life horror movie.

Second, she didn’t give a fuck about my personal aspirations and goals I had set forth for myself. Everything, I mean EVERYTHING had to be about her.

If she wasn’t included in the picture in some way thereafter came a vicious evil sick demented crazy Tinder woman attitude that should go unrivaled against any other level of craziness I had ever seen before.

Literally, I saw a woman go from an angel to a devil in a matter of minutes.

Next, she was constantly seeking validation from me in an unhealthy way. I understand it’s only natural to want to hear your partner say they, “Love you” or “I miss you”. But, these women took things to a level I’ve never been to before.

I once had a woman who drove thirty minutes to “make sure I was okay” and I was just thinking in the back of my head, “You insecure psycho bitch… How am I going to get rid of your ass”?

These sorts of situations made me become particularly cautious of who I would bring into my house.

Unfortunately, this kind of situation became a vicious cycle for me and I was finding myself constantly trying to build Tinder bitches up.

Then it dawned on me and I said to myself, “Joseph, you are not Jesus Christ”. I had come to the realization these women were out of the scope of which I could be of any assistance. They had serious emotional mental health issues that existed way before I ever came into the picture

I learned a lot of valuable lessons out of my year and a half of dating on Tinder. I realized a lot of what I like in a woman and what I don’t like in a woman.

I most definitely will be sticking to the traditional methods of meeting women such as interacting with other human beings in the real world versus hiding behind my 140 characters and profile picture for the rest of my life.