Getting away can be a great proof of love
Walking away doesn’t always mean a lack of interest. In fact, sometimes it means that we appreciate the other person so much that we want them to realize their own personal growth.
Last update : Aug 06, 2019
Getting away from someone can be a great act of love. Because sometimes our presence does not help anything but causes quite the opposite.
We believe in being with someone you love, but what if walking away was even more important?
One does not necessarily have to feel bad, be insulted or become the target of some kind of prejudice. Sometimes taking a distance from the person we love most at the right time can be a great gift.
Getting away allows others to fight their own fights
What happens when you love someone? We don’t want nothing bad to happen to him and we take care of his well-being to such an extent that if we could put ourselves in his shoes, we would.
However, we know that is not positive. Imagine, then, that we are going through a very bad time and that we cannot get out of it.
We can receive encouragement from our family, but that’s all: they can’t do anything else.
In the event that someone tries to lead, advise, and guide us in maintaining an outside vision, or even doing things that we should be doing on our own, we would lose the great opportunity to learn from one of the many experiences that life gives us.
We will tend to shy away from anything negative. If others want to take over, we allow them. However, this will prevent us from taking responsibility for our life.
No one likes to suffer, but suffering allows you to grow, mature and learn. Without the negative, we would never value the positive; without the wrong passages, we would not be able to move towards what is best for us.
Wanting to take the place of this person we love so much, wanting to fight their own battles is a huge mistake.
When love blinds us so much that it prevents us from thinking clearly and observing that circumstances can be a great opportunity, sometimes walking away is the best we can do.
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Certain beliefs can influence us when we think we are moving away from someone, in order to give them space and not to be an obstacle in their own development.
Without realizing it, sometimes we manipulate or oblige because we see reality in a different way. It’s normal ! Everyone has a way of reacting.
But what is important is thus to allow everyone to act as they wish, even if that does not seem to us to be the best way to act.
This is why it is so important to get away. And this despite many received ideas that encourage us to stay next to this person we love. Here are some of them:
- I can’t leave him because, without me, what is he going to do? This prevents the other person from taking charge of the situation. Plus, you underestimate her, like she can’t figure things out without you. You are not his / her savior.
- If I walk away, he’ll think I don’t like him. But maybe the other person doesn’t think so. In fact, you may be afraid that others will judge you for not doing what is considered “right”.
- He needs me, he always tells me that I am very important. Maybe the person you love so much depends on you so much that it prevents them from being well and from facing the situation without you.
You don’t know how much you’ll help him grow if you walk away.
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Give others the opportunity to emancipate themselves. If they’re scared, if they’ve been tied up, and if they need us because they believe they can’t do it on their own, it’s time to walk away.
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