If He Does These 7 Things, He Is Ready To Commit
Men are not as easy to understand as we think and there is that perennial problem of commitment on top of that.
I know you think most of them are engagement phobic and you are right.
I don’t know why but guys seem to value their “freedom” more than anything else.
They seem to struggle with their feelings even when they love a girl and want to spend the rest of their life with her.
They just don’t want to be in chains. They want to have a choice.
Knowing this, many women avoid talking about engagement with their boyfriend because they fear scaring them into making them feel like they are too pushy.
So stop constantly thinking about your relationship and the direction it is going; check out these few signs so you can be sure he’s ready to engage with you:
1. He invites you to real dates
Men associate dating with relationships, with something serious and therefore with commitment.
If he’s planning on taking you on a date, you can be sure he’s serious.
Otherwise, he would be content to keep things “simple” by calling you sometimes for a one-night stand or other one-off meetings, nothing serious.
Also, if he asks you out on a date, be sure to ask him if he’s referring to a real date, because you don’t want to be stuck with someone who sees you as his teacher.
2. He tells you about his dreams
If he truly appreciates you, he will share his dreams and ambitions with you.
He will tell you what he hopes for out of life and also what he wants his future to look like.
Talking to you about this sort of thing, he’ll know if you have similar aspirations to his.
If he is happy with what he finds out, he will keep in touch with you.
Men want to be with women who will support them in whatever they do.
A man wants to surpass himself and be with a woman who will help him.
If you ask him about his dreams and ambitions but he doesn’t epilogue, he’s probably not very interested in you and you should assume that he’s not planning to engage with you.
3. He wants to spend time with you
He organizes times with you and he constantly makes an effort to be near you.
He wants to spend his free time with you which is definitely a sign that he appreciates you and wants you to be more than just friends.
But don’t go too fast and make sure he shows other signs that he likes you and if the answer is yes, you can go!
4. He doesn’t pick on you
He respects you enough not to put his problems on you and make you responsible for them.
If something is bothering him, he will retreat to his den and face it on his own.
Don’t force him to talk to you.
He will speak to you when he feels ready. But the important thing is that he won’t blame you for his problems.
If he really wants to engage with you, he will understand that you have the right to have time for yourself and that he does not have the right to blame you for his own problems.
5. He wants you to meet his friends and family
It’s an obvious sign, indicating that he wants things to get serious between you.
He has faith in you and wants you to be part of his life from now on, which is why he wants you to meet the people who are closest and dear to him.
Also, he will do everything he can to make his loved ones like you and if this is not the case, he will not abandon you for all that.
In short, if he wants you to meet the important people in his life, then you are important too.
6. He communicates with you regularly
He’s not one of those hot and cold guys.
He does not want to play it inaccessible because these are games for little boys and he is no longer one.
He wants to be clear and transparent with you, he wants to put his cards on the table.
Do you remember those guys who texted you everyday that you haven’t heard from in ages?
Now, a man wanting to engage with you would never do such a thing.
7. He is himself when he is with you
And you too. You are both sincere and you don’t want to pretend.
You know that by being yourself he will not judge you and being himself with you is not insecure for him.
And this is in fact the most important.
There is no point in pretending to be what you are not because if your partner loves who you say you are, then he or she doesn’t love you.
And how long do you think someone can act out for?
The masks sooner or later fall off and then it’s over.
You two are different and he knows it. He knows he can be himself with you and that is why it will not be difficult for him to engage with you.
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