POF : 29 M Critique? Had very little responses from women so looking for some helpful feedback to see where I’m going wrong.
29 M Critique? Had very little responses from women so looking for some helpful feedback to see where I’m going wrong.
By. Yuphrum
It’s probably because you look like a twat
I would say pick a better main photo, perhaps one where you’re smiling. Never underestimate the power of a nice smile. You’re not a bad looking guy.
Other than that, your profile looks good. I like the « 10 top things about me » approach. It’s clean and simple, but maybe reduce that to 5. Treat your profile like a resume. Make it short enough to not bore people but provide just enough to pique interest.
Maybe your opening message isn’t strong enough? Online dating is a numbers game. Long periods of not getting any responses is normal, unfortunately. Women get lots of messages and they can afford to be pickier than they would be in real life. Just keep at it and don’t get discouraged.
Agree with everything above! A picture showing you having fun would be much better- and I’d say as well as the shorter list, write a bit about what you’re looking for and why the things (video games etc) make you happy. Your list at the minute notes things that you do, but it gives no sense of how you feel about them or why.
Good luck!
hey : )just set up a pot myself which led me to this on reddit. anyways I think your profile looks great, genuinely (32 f here) so I gather I am in and around give or take 5 years your desired demographic, in terms of age anyways.. think the marathon pic is great too and ofcoarse the cat is good. I personally wouldn’t worry too much about your main profile pic, you clearly have a distinctive style, thats a plus, and you will most likely want to attract someone who admires that. best of luck with it!
Your male, like the rest of us males youre d-o-n-e fucked when it comes to online dating.