POF : Accidentally liked a Co-worker on POF. Should I say anything ?
So there is a new girl at my work that I have to work with somewhat a lot via email mostly, but I don’t know well at all. We have to wear masks in common areas in office so I think I’ve only seen her face once. Recently broke up with my girlfriend so jumped back on POF and was hastily liking girls in there. Saw her, hit the like button real quick then realized it was her. They don’t have the option to unlike, so now I’m worried I’ve made her uncomfortable. I don’t talk to this girl much on a personal level. Should I say anything to make sure all is well, or do I ignore it amd risk. Ring the work weirdo ???…. Help much appreciated
By. doolimite1
She may like you. As sometimes on pof you may not have popped up on her swipe left or right yet but once you like her you are more likely to pop up on hers. Also you can unlike her but you just have to keep swiping until she pops up again.
Unlikely she even saw your like among the 100 others that day. If she brings it up, that’s your chance to know her. Otherwise, it never happened.
It’s not that serious. If you make it a big deal it might blow into one. If Hr asks about it (they wont. This is silly) just say you were just swiping right on everyone.
If she brings it up try to have a laugh about it.
If you want to persue this girl, then just apologize in advanced. If she’s positive about it, shoot ur shot
POF?
If you liked her on POF and she is not an upgraded member then you have nothing to worry about because she will never see you. That’s how tjey con people into upgrading, so they can see the people who like them. She will see your thumbnail and username in the alerts though, but won’t be able to access your profile
If she also likes you too then boom, you match.
I know this thread is over a month old but this has happened to me before, with a coworker that I wasn’t actually interested in. I was proactive and shot her a quick message that said something to the effect of “Hey there, ran across your profile and figured I’d bug you. Hope your online experience is going better than mine. See you at work!”. She responded with a light-hearted response and that was it. A few days later I asked her (in person) how things with POF were going and we just laughed over shared “bad date stories”. No harm no foul.
Update your resume. If she doesn’t share your feelings, you’re going to HR soon.
I’d just wait and see if she contacts you.
I once « Liked » an old wingman I’ve met when I was stationed in Okinawa, and did manage to reconnect with her because she was here in my homestate not even 2 years ago. After just 1 call, she completely ghosted me.