POF : Do you get responses to unqiue messages?
I’ve just had a browse of my inbox/sent messages to see which conversation starters were successfull and I’ve realised i’ve only ever had replies to my generic, throwaway, copypaste opener that took me about 30 seconds to write and I copy from my sent messages every time I log in. Its kinda deflating knowing that extra effort doesnt count for anything and I think, really? These Women will respond to that crap but not an actually thought out and personal message based on their profile? Is there a word for only getting results by means of minimal effort?