POF : Experiences with getting ghosted
Throwaway because the incoming pathetic rant
Anyone else get ghosted extremely frequently? I had what I thought was an amazing date with a girl. I seriously had the most fun I’ve ever had in a while and I could see she was enjoying it. We had a lot in common too. At the end of the night I ask if she’d be interested in dinner in the future and she says yes. Awesome.
So it’s been two days+ since and I’ve messaged her letting her know that I’m free if she available. I know she’s had to seen the message because a few times I’ve been on it says she was online. But no message, nothing.
And this isn’t the first time I’ve had this happen. I’m not mad, I just wish people would give closure. It’s not obligated, just courtesy. A simple « not interested » would be great. I can’t learn from my mistakes if I don’t know what I did wrong.