POF : I Expect to be Treated Like a Princess on our First Date
I Expect to be Treated Like a Princess on our First Date (and you buy me things).
I am not shallow by any means. But I ‘connected’ with a girl on POF and we went on our first date this past weekend. She tells me to ‘treat her like a princess’ and ‘pamper her’. Now, I’ll gladly grab the dinner bill – but seriously?
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What is wrong with people these days
By. redditposter919
This is seriously becoming a problem.
Story time! Two weekends ago I went out on a date with a girl I met on OkCupid. She’s 32 years old, attractive, good shape.
When I text her I’m on the way to pick her up, I tell her I’m going to stop for gas on the way. She asks me to buy her a pack of cigarettes (Red Flag #1.) When I pick her up and we decide what bar to go to, she asks, « You’re buying my drinks right? » (Red Flag #2.) When I tell her that we don’t know each other yet and are not obligated to each other, and my standard practice is the first few dates we each get our own bill – especially when it’s just a few beers anyway. She says that’s unacceptable to her but « Fine, whatever. » (Red Flag #3.)
During the date we talk about our pasts and we eventually both talk about how back in the day we both experimented with a few drugs. I said those days were long behind me and she agreed they were for her, too. After the date, when I got home, she texted me and asked if the next time we hang out, we could possible do some hard drugs together (even though she said she doesn’t do them anymore, and I don’t either) and asked if I could pay for said drugs. (Red Flags #4 and #5.) I said, « um no thanks » and blocked her.
The entitlement is real out there, folks.
Unfortunately it’s conditioning on the female brain they now believe we owe them for just having them in our presence.
Eye roll infinity.
On both sides it’s just as bad. Some men being offended when a woman is capable and willing to pay their own way. And some women who expect to be treated like a princess. I have no problem treating my partner well. But this is after we’ve established we are anything to each other. Demands like this are a big red flag early on.
Anyone that clings to old school methods like this (where both sides are not equals) is severely limiting themselves.
Remind her that a high class escort is cheaper, and more attractive.
Generation that grew up watching too much Disney.
>I’ll gladly grab the dinner bill
You fucked up there. She spins that line on every guy she meets.
If she ain’t putting out, forget it.
Lol, There are girls with lists of demands in there bio in my area.
i HATE the « princess » idiots. You’re not a princess. Grow the fuck up.
As a woman that is rotten of her to say that. I always tell my boyfriend that I am not materialistic. If he brought me a $1 iced coffee from mcdonalds I would be happy. If he took a piece of toilet paper or a napkin and left me a love note I would love that more than I would anything money could buy.
MGTOW